SEVEN MISSTEPS IN RAISING CHILDREN.

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SEVEN MISSTEPS IN RAISING CHILDREN.

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

9/7/24

Proverbs 29:15,17

   "The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame."

  17) Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul.

Always allowing  children have their way as a way of pacifying them whenever they are angry is a form of child abuse. Such children grow up to become self-centred and unspiritual adults . Children should be trained to always consider how a decision they are about to take will impinge on their families and the community. Failure to do so will result in catastrophic failure in marriages and families. The bible contains all that is needed for raising responsible children and adults  

   Raising a child from childhood to adulthood is a profound responsibility, and the Bible provides valuable guidance on this journey. However, there are seven significant missteps to avoid in this process:

1. **Neglecting Discipline**: Proverbs 13:24 states, "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them." Failing to discipline can lead to a lack of boundaries and respect for authority.

2. **Provoking to Anger**: Ephesians 6:4 warns, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." Constantly provoking or harshly criticizing can breed resentment and rebellion. Commend them when they do well . Tell them you are proud of them when they make the right decision.

3. **Ignoring Spiritual Education**: Deuteronomy 6:6-7 instructs, "These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children." Neglecting spiritual education deprives children of a moral foundation and a relationship with God. Don't miss Sunday school classes . 

4. **Showing Partiality**: James 2:1 cautions, "My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must not show favoritism." Favoritism can create sibling rivalry and feelings of inadequacy.

5. **Overprotection**: Ecclesiastes 3:1 teaches, "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." Overprotecting can hinder a child's ability to learn and grow independently.

6. **Materialism Over Values**: Matthew 6:24 says, "You cannot serve both God and money." Prioritizing material wealth over spiritual and moral values can skew a child's sense of true success and happiness.

7. **Inconsistent Parenting**: James 1:8 warns, "Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do." Inconsistency in rules and expectations can create confusion and insecurity in children. Take a decision and stand on it 

Avoiding these pitfalls, guided by biblical wisdom, can help foster a healthy, well-rounded, and spiritually grounded upbringing for children. Always bind evil spirits and bad friends from influencing your children in your daily prayers. Let them be filled with the Holy Spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues for inner strength (1Cor 14:4) 

Prayer: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to destroy evil family patterns . Amen 

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