EFFECTIVE WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

 

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Good -Life Devotional: MORE EFFECTIVE WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

Proverbs 22:11 'He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the king shall be his friend. 

Good and effective communication skills in relationships opens doors in high places . Here are more was a husband and wife can restart healthy communication after a break up. 

5. REAFFIRM COMMITMENT

One major fear after a break is uncertainty about the future. Reassure your spouse of your commitment to the covenant. Hosea said to Gomer, “You must dwell with me many days.” (Hosea 3:3) This showed he wasn’t giving up.

PRACTICAL STEP: Say things like, “I’m committed to working this out because our marriage is worth it.” These words bring security.

6. SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES FOR HEALING

Rebuilding trust requires boundaries. This may include transparency with phones, limiting toxic friendships, or scheduling time together. Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together except they agree?” Boundaries create agreement and safety.

Example: After infidelity, a couple agreed to share passwords and avoid private communication with the opposite sex. These measures restored trust over time.

7. LISTEN ACTIVELY

James 1:19 instructs, “Be quick to listen, slow to speak.” Many conflicts persist because spouses listen to reply, not to understand. Put away your phone, maintain eye contact, and reflect back what you hear.

Example: When Amaka returned home, her husband listened without interrupting for 30 minutes. That single act melted her defenses and opened her heart to reconciliation.

8. USE EDIFYING WORDS DAILY

Proverbs 16:24 says, “Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” Compliment each other often. Say thank you for small acts. Speak life into your spouse’s dreams.

Example: After years of harsh words, one husband started leaving notes saying, “I appreciate you.” Within months, their home environment changed dramatically.

9. SEEK WISE COUNSEL IF NECESSARY

Sometimes, you need help. Pride often stops couples from getting counseling, but Proverbs 11:14 says, “In the multitude of counselors there is safety.” A godly counselor can offer perspective and accountability.

Example: A Christian couple struggling to reconnect after separation attended marriage counseling at their church. With guidance and prayer, they rebuilt their communication and trust.

10. REBUILD INTIMACY GRADUALLY

Emotional and spiritual intimacy must precede physical intimacy. Hosea didn’t rush into physical union with Gomer; he focused on restoring her heart first (Hosea 3:3). Take time to talk, pray, and laugh together before resuming full intimacy.

Example: A couple agreed to have monthly date nights with no arguments—just connection and fun. This gradually restored affection and desire.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Marriage reflects Christ’s relationship with the Church. If Christ reconciled us while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8), then we, too, can extend grace. Reconciliation glorifies God and strengthens families.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Communication is the lifeline of marriage. After a break, starting again requires humility, forgiveness, and intentional effort. You are not alone—God is the ultimate restorer. Remember His promise in Joel 2:25: “I will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten.”

PRAYER FOR RECONCILIATION 

Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to heal the broken hearted 

Heavenly Father, thank You for being the God of restoration. Heal our hearts from hurt, remove pride, and help us to speak with love and grace. Teach us to forgive as You forgave us. May our home be filled with peace and understanding. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

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WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

"All this is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation." (2 Corinthians 5:18, AMP)

   Marriage is a divine covenant, not just a social contract. Yet, even strong marriages can experience seasons of misunderstanding, emotional distance, or even physical separation. These breaks, if not handled well, can destroy trust and affection. But God specializes in reconciliation, and He calls couples to walk in that same spirit.

   The story of Prophet Hosea and his wife Gomer (Hosea 3:1-3) is a vivid example. Gomer abandoned Hosea, yet God commanded Hosea to love her again, symbolizing His unwavering love for His people. This narrative teaches us that reconciliation is possible—even after deep hurt—through God’s grace and intentional effort.

Below are some practical ways couples can restart healthy communication after a break, supported by Scripture and real-life wisdom.

1. BEGIN WITH PRAYER AND HUMILITY

Everything begins with God. Prayer softens hardened hearts and aligns our spirit with His will. Before you speak to your spouse, speak to God. Hosea sought God before restoring his wife, and so should we.

"God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6)

Example: Before John called his estranged wife after six months of silence, he prayed daily for God to heal his bitterness. By the time he reached out, his tone was humble and loving, not accusatory.

2. ACKNOWLEDGE PAST HURTS WITHOUT BLAME

Healthy communication starts by addressing the elephant in the room. Pretending nothing happened deepens wounds. However, this must be done without finger-pointing. Use “I feel” statements instead of “You always” or “You never.”

"Speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into Him who is the head—Christ." (Ephesians 4:15)

Example: Instead of saying, “You abandoned me,” say, “I felt lonely and hurt during our separation.” This opens the door for empathy rather than defense.

3. EXPRESS GENUINE FORGIVENESS

Without forgiveness, reconciliation is impossible. Colossians 3:13 says, “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Forgiveness is a choice, not an emotion. You may not forget immediately, but you can release resentment today.

Example: Belema  wrote a letter to her husband after his betrayal, stating, “I choose to forgive you, not because you deserve it, but because Christ forgave me.” That broke the ice for honest conversation.

4. SPEAK WITH LOVE AND RESPECT

Words can either build bridges or walls. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, “A gentle answer turns away wrath.” Avoid harsh tones, sarcasm, or threats. Instead, speak words that heal and edify.

Example: When arguments arose, Timi and Ngozi agreed to pause and pray before continuing the discussion. This practice helped them choose kind words even in tense moments.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the spirit of reconciliation in our homes and communities.

PRAYER : Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome bitterness.

Heavenly Father, thank You for being the God of restoration. Heal our hearts from hurt, remove pride, and help us to speak with love and grace. Teach us to forgive as You forgave us. May our home be filled with peace and understanding. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 4)

 Your tears of sorrow shall turn into tears of joy because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 4) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 Derogatory remarks a Husband Should Avoid Saying to His Wife for a Cordial Relationship

Colossians 4:6 'Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man." 

There is a way to answer every man according to the scriptures . We are saved by grace therefore our speeches should reflect the saving grace of our lord Jesus Christ.

 Here are more remarks that a husband should not make towards his wife and their implications.

“YOU ARE LAZY.” – Ignores her daily sacrifices and labor.

“STOP TALKING, YOU DON’T KNOW ANYTHING.” – Silences her voice and belittles her wisdom.

“YOU ARE A BAD MOTHER.” – Cuts at the heart of her identity.

“OTHER WOMEN ARE BETTER THAN YOU.” – Inflicts deep wounds of comparison.

“YOU DON’T SATISFY ME.” – Insensitive and dishonoring to marital intimacy.

“I DON’T NEED YOU.” – Dismisses her role as a partner.

“YOU ARE CURSED/YOU BRING ME BAD LUCK.” – Invites condemnation instead of blessing.

“YOU DISGUST ME.” – Breaks intimacy and affection.

“I WISH I NEVER MET YOU.” – The ultimate betrayal of love.

BIBLICAL EXAMPLES OF HUSBANDS WHO SPOKE WELL

 + Elkanah and Hannah (1 Samuel 1:8): When Hannah wept over barrenness, Elkanah comforted her by saying, “Am I not more to you than ten sons?” He spoke love to soothe her pain.

+  Boaz and Ruth (Ruth 2:12): Boaz blessed Ruth with words of encouragement and honor for her faithfulness. His words strengthened her heart.

+  Jesus and the Church (Ephesians 5:25-27): Christ models the perfect husband by sanctifying His bride with words of love and life, not condemnation.

POSITIVE ALTERNATIVES HUSBANDS SHOULD USE

+ Instead of “You are useless,” say: “I am blessed to have you as my partner.”

+ Instead of “I regret marrying you,” say: “You are God’s gift to me.”

+ Instead of “You are a bad mother,” say: “You are doing an amazing job with the children.”

+ Instead of “You don’t satisfy me,” say: “I cherish the intimacy we share.”

+ Instead of “Other women are better than you,” say: “You are the only one I desire.”

   A wife blossoms in an atmosphere of love and respect. Just as a wife is called to honor her husband, the husband is commanded to love his wife sacrificially. WORDS ARE SEEDS: plant encouragement, and you will harvest joy; plant insults, and you will reap strife.

   Proverbs 15:1 reminds us: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger.” Therefore, let every husband learn to speak words of life, so that the marriage remains cordial, peaceful, and filled with the fragrance of Christ.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and a heart of compassion. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to forgive .

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 3)

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Good-Life Devotional: CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 3) 

 Derogatory remarks a Husband Should Avoid Saying to His Wife for a Cordial Relationship

   Ephesians 5:25 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”

    Marriage thrives on love, honor, and mutual respect. While wives are cautioned against using careless words, husbands must also guard their tongues. A wife is a reflection of how her husband treats her. Proverbs 31:28 says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.”

     Words spoken by a husband can either nurture his wife into a confident, joyful woman or crush her spirit into bitterness. Just as Christ uses words of love and encouragement toward the Church, husbands are called to speak words that edify.

  Below are some derogatory things husbands must avoid saying to their wives if they desire peace, intimacy, and a cordial relationship:

    Here are some Derogatory remarks Husbands Must Avoid Saying to Their Wives

“YOU ARE TOO FAT/TOO THIN.” – Body shaming erodes her confidence.

“YOU ARE AGING BADLY.” – Insults her appearance and makes her insecure.

“YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL.” – Destroys her self-esteem.

“MY MOTHER COOKS BETTER THAN YOU.” – Comparison invites resentment.

“YOU ARE JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!” (in a negative way) – Disrespectful to her family and identity.

“YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT.” – Cancels her efforts and belittles her.

“YOU ARE TOO EMOTIONAL.” – Dismisses her feelings instead of showing empathy.

“YOU ARE A TERRIBLE WIFE.” – Labels and wounds her deeply.

“I REGRET MARRYING YOU.” – Shakes the foundation of trust.

“I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE.” – Plants seeds of rejection and betrayal.

“You are useless without me.” – Controlling and demeaning.

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom to speak with grace .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for wise self expression 

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES ( PART 2)

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES  ( PART 2) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 Derogatory Things a Wife Should Avoid Saying to Her Husband for a Cordial Relationship

11. “I HATE YOU.”

The most destructive declaration in any marriage.

12. “YOU ARE STUPID.”

This is disrespectful and humiliating.

13. “YOU ARE JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER!” (in a negative sense)

Comparing him to negative traits of his parents deepens wounds.

14. “YOU DISGUST ME.”

Breaks emotional and physical connection.

15. “I WISH YOU WERE DEAD.”

The ultimate curse. Words like this invite destruction.

16. “YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR ME.”

Dismisses every effort he has made in the past.

17. “OTHER MEN TAKE BETTER CARE OF THEIR WIVES.”

Comparisons lead to bitterness and envy.

18. “YOU ARE TOO WEAK TO LEAD.”

Discredits his God-given role and causes rebellion or withdrawal.

19. “YOU ARE A BAD FATHER.”

Criticism in this area cuts deeply and affects his confidence in parenting.

20. “I CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOU.”

Suggests he is irrelevant and not valued.

THE POWER OF EDIFYING WORDS

Instead of tearing down your husband with harsh words, choose to build him up with affirmations like:

“I BELIEVE IN YOU.”

“YOU ARE A BLESSING TO THIS FAMILY.”

“THANK YOU FOR WORKING SO HARD FOR US.”

“I RESPECT YOU AS MY HUSBAND.”

“WITH GOD’S HELP, WE WILL OVERCOME THIS TOGETHER.”

Proverbs 14:1 says, “The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands.” A wise wife uses words to strengthen her home, just like Zipporah chose action and life-giving words over criticism.

PRACTICAL TIPS FOR WIVES

+ PAUSE BEFORE SPEAKING: Think—will these words build or destroy?

+ SPEAK WITH GRACE: Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.”

+ PRAY INSTEAD OF NAGGING: 1 Peter 3:1 encourages wives to win their husbands without harsh words.

+ AFFIRM EFFORT, NOT JUST SUCCESS: Celebrate progress.

+CORRECT PRIVATELY, PRAISE PUBLICLY: Never embarrass him in front of others.

Conclusion:

Your words can either be weapons of destruction or tools of construction in marriage. Learn from Zipporah—choose life, speak life, and watch your marriage flourish.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to forgive .

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES ( PART 1)

 Your family shall not fall apart but wax strong in love because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES  ( PART 1) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 Derogatory Things a Wife Should Avoid Saying to Her Husband for a Cordial Relationship

 Exodus 4:24-26

"Now it happened at the lodging place that the LORD met him and sought to kill him. But Zipporah took a flint and cut off her son’s foreskin and touched Moses’ feet with it and said, ‘Surely you are a bridegroom of blood to me.’ So He let him alone."

    Marriage is a sacred covenant where words play a significant role in shaping the atmosphere of the home. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Words can either nurture love or poison intimacy.

   In Exodus 4:24-26, Moses was under divine judgment because he neglected to circumcise his son, violating God’s covenant law. At that critical moment, Zipporah acted wisely. She did not curse Moses, ridicule him, or remind him of his failure. Instead, she intervened decisively to save his life. This teaches wives the power of supportive action and respectful speech even when their husbands falter.

    Sadly, many marriages suffer because of careless or derogatory words. Below are some statements a wife should never say to her husband if she desires a loving and cordial relationship , the same rules apply to husbands too. 

1. “YOU ARE USELESS!”

This statement attacks his identity and erodes his confidence as the head of the home.

2. “YOU WILL NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING.”

Words like these kill motivation and hope. Every man needs encouragement, not condemnation.

3. “MY FATHER/BROTHER IS BETTER THAN YOU.”

Comparisons destroy intimacy and create resentment.

4. “I REGRET MARRYING YOU.”

Such words undo the commitment you made before God and tear at the foundation of trust.

5. “YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT.”

This negates his efforts and discourages progress.

6. “I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE.”

It’s a dagger to the heart of love and breeds insecurity.

7. “YOU ARE NOT A REAL MAN.”

Attacking his masculinity creates deep emotional wounds.

8. “YOU ARE TOO POOR TO BE MY HUSBAND.”

Insulting his financial status shames him and pushes him away.

9. “I DON’T NEED YOU.”

This devalues his role as a protector, provider, and partner.

10. “YOU ARE A FAILURE.” 

Labels like this crush his spirit and hinder his leadership.

If you have ever said any of such to your husband seek forgiveness from God and from him for the healing of your marriage ( James 5:16) and in our daily prayers we should ask for a meek spirit that is open to correction .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to love. 

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SPIRITUAL SELF-SABOTAGE: THE HIDDEN BARRIER TO GOD’S WILL

 You shall not fall into the enemy's trap because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: SPIRITUAL SELF-SABOTAGE: THE HIDDEN BARRIER TO GOD’S WILL

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   Many believers attribute delays and setbacks in life to demonic attacks, but often the real hindrance is spiritual self-sabotage—our failure to align with God’s will. Deuteronomy 28:1 teaches that blessings flow through the funnel of obedience, character, and alignment with God’s purpose. Victory over the enemy has already been secured through Christ’s triumph at the cross (Colossians 2:15). All things are under His feet, and by extension, under the church (Ephesians 1:20-22). Therefore, the greatest obstacle is not Satan, but our unwillingness to walk in the victory Jesus gave us.

   Proverbs 25:28 warns that lack of self-control leaves us vulnerable, like a city without walls. Seeking the world’s approval makes us enemies of God (James 4:4). Jesus reminds us in John 15:2,6 that unfruitful branches are cut off. Israel’s struggles in Judges 2:11 and Hosea 4:6 were not about enemy strength but about disobedience and ignorance. Likewise, many today are destroyed for lack of knowledge.

   Spiritual maturity requires discipline—training the senses to discern good and evil (Hebrews 5:14). It calls for crucifying the flesh and walking in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16), rather than living for worldly applause. Our greatest prayer should be for grace to obey, because obedience attracts God’s blessing (Deuteronomy 28:15).

   True victory is not in rebuking external forces alone but in submitting to God’s will daily. When we align with Him, the blessings promised in His Word will manifest, and no enemy can prevail.

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and a repentant and sensitive heart .

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome temptation. 

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RAISING WISE CHILDREN IN A CORRUPT WORLD SYSTEM

 

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RAISING WISE CHILDREN IN  A CORRUPT WORLD SYSTEM 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 “Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline [correction administered with godly wisdom] will remove it far from him.” – Proverbs 22:15 (AMP)

Every child is born with a sinful nature, which often manifests in stubbornness, disobedience, and wrong desires. The Bible calls this foolishness bound in the heart. If left unchecked, these tendencies can lead to destruction—not just for the child but for the family and society.

    God’s Word shows us the remedy: discipline, instruction, and the fear of the Lord. Training a child in God’s ways is not optional; it is a divine mandate. Proverbs 22:6 tells us to “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” This means deliberate, consistent teaching of God’s Word, correction when necessary, and living as an example of godliness.

    Discipline does not mean harsh punishment; it means guiding with love, setting boundaries, and showing the consequences of choices. A parent who prays for their child and models righteousness will influence that child far more than mere words. Remember, rebellion and foolishness are spiritual issues, so intercession and teaching must go hand in hand.

APPLICATION

Make time daily to teach your children God’s Word.

Correct wrong behavior IMMEDIATELY but with love and fairness. Delayed correction shows weakness.

Pray consistently for your children to fear God and choose wisdom.

Be an example; your life speaks louder than your instructions.

PRAYER Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and wisdom for excellence. 

Father, I thank You for the gift of children. Help me to raise them in Your wisdom. Remove every spirit of rebellion and foolishness from their hearts. Teach me to discipline with love and to lead by example. May my children walk in the fear of the Lord and fulfill Your purpose for their lives, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

 You shall continue to make great progress despite the opposition against you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you. 

Good-life Devotional: TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   Isaiah 61:3 declares that God’s people “shall be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.” A tree is known by its fruit (Matthew 7:17), and as God’s planting, we are expected to produce fruits that reflect His nature. These fruits of righteousness do not appear by accident; they grow from the seeds we sow.

   According to 2 Corinthians 9:10, God “supplies seed to the sower and bread for food, and will also supply and increase your store of seed and enlarge the harvest of your righteousness.” These seeds include the Word of righteousness we preach (Luke 8:11) and the financial resources we give for the advancement of the gospel (Philippians 4:17). Every time we share the gospel or support kingdom work, we are planting seeds that will transform lives and society for the better.

   Over time, consistent sowing results in us being “filled with the fruits of righteousness, which are by Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God” (Philippians 1:11). When righteousness flourishes, society enjoys peace and stability, for “righteousness exalts a nation” (Proverbs 14:34).

Jesus said, “Abide in Me…and you will bear much fruit” (John 15:5). As we remain rooted in Christ and faithful in sowing righteous seeds, we grow into strong trees that provide shade, fruit, and life to others. Let us keep planting—through preaching, giving, and living God’s Word—until the earth is filled with the beauty of His righteousness (Habakkuk 2:14).

You are God’s planting—keep sowing, keep growing, keep transforming lives!

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and grace to give towards God's work. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome poverty.

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NIGERIA: FROM CORRUPTION TO RIGHTEOUSNESS

Your righteousness shall break forth like a shining light because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: NIGERIA: FROM CORRUPTION TO RIGHTEOUSNESS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

: “For the earth will be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the LORD as the waters cover the sea.” – Habakkuk 2:14 (AMP)

Pastor Sydney Granville Elton. ( April 16 , 1907- January 14, 1987 )  , a British missionary  to Nigeria who spent 50 years doing ministry in Ilesha western Nigeria , gave a prophecy  that resonates strongly today:

“Nigeria and Nigerians will be known all over the world for corruption. Your name – Nigeria – will stink for corruption, but after a while, a new phase will come. A phase of righteousness. People from the nations of the earth will hold a Nigerian and say, ‘We want to follow you to your nation to learn righteousness.’”

   Today, we see the first part of this prophecy fulfilled. Nigeria struggles with systemic corruption, and sadly, the church is not exempt. The merchandising of the gospel—turning ministry into a business—has created greed, false prophecies, and moral compromise. Many preachers now echo the words of Micah 3:11: “Her leaders judge for a bribe, her priests teach for a price, and her prophets tell fortunes for money.”

  Yet, the prophecy did not end in darkness. God promised a season of righteousness. This aligns with Isaiah 60:1-3: “Arise, shine, for your light has come… Nations will come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your dawn.” A great revival is coming, and Nigeria will play a key role in global evangelism. God is raising aposttles of righteousness in Nigeria. 

But this future depends on obedient believers. The call is clear:

REPENTANCE: Judgment begins in the house of God (1 Peter 4:17).

HOLINESS: Without holiness, no one will see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14).

DISCIPLESHIP: Raising a generation that loves Christ more than money.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome temptation.

Lord, purge Your church in Nigeria. Raise men and women who will stand for truth and righteousness. Let revival begin in me, and let Your light shine from Nigeria to the nations.

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WHEN LAWMAKERS BLOCK JUSTICE”

 The strongman hindering your progress shall be subdued by the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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 “WHEN LAWMAKERS BLOCK JUSTICE”

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

  Proverbs 29:2 – “When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; but when a wicked man rules, the people groan.”

   In every nation, justice is the foundation of peace. When lawmakers refuse to pass bills that guarantee free and fair elections, they deny the people their God-given right to righteousness and equity. The Bible warns that when justice is perverted, oppression multiplies Poverty and  insecurity increases (Ecclesiastes 5:8).

   God expects His people to speak up. “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed” (Proverbs 31:8-9 AMP). Silence in the face of injustice empowers the wicked. As Christians, we must pray for our leaders (1 Timothy 2:1-2) but also take lawful action to demand accountability.

    God hates dishonest scales (Proverbs 11:1). Electoral fraud and legislative sabotage destroy the foundation of governance and hinders the gospel . Therefore, believers must use their voice, their vote, and their influence to promote integrity. Advocacy, peaceful protests, and media engagement are righteous acts when done lawfully and for the common good.

   Remember: God will judge corrupt rulers (Isaiah 10:1-3). But He also calls us to partner with Him in establishing justice. Rise up, speak out, and let righteousness rule in your land!

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and courage to demand justice and wisdom to act in righteousness, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

 You shall continue to make great progress despite the opposition against you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you. 

Good-life Devotional: TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   Isaiah 61:3 declares that God’s people “shall be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.” A tree is known by its fruit (Matthew 7:17), and as God’s planting, we are expected to produce fruits that reflect His nature. These fruits of righteousness do not appear by accident; they grow from the seeds we sow.

   According to 2 Corinthians 9:10, God “supplies seed to the sower and bread for food, and will also supply and increase your store of seed and enlarge the harvest of your righteousness.” These seeds include the Word of righteousness we preach (Luke 8:11) and the financial resources we give for the advancement of the gospel (Philippians 4:17). Every time we share the gospel or support kingdom work, we are planting seeds that will transform lives and society for the better.

   Over time, consistent sowing results in us being “filled with the fruits of righteousness, which are by Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God” (Philippians 1:11). When righteousness flourishes, society enjoys peace and stability, for “righteousness exalts a nation” (Proverbs 14:34).

Jesus said, “Abide in Me…and you will bear much fruit” (John 15:5). As we remain rooted in Christ and faithful in sowing righteous seeds, we grow into strong trees that provide shade, fruit, and life to others. Let us keep planting—through preaching, giving, and living God’s Word—until the earth is filled with the beauty of His righteousness (Habakkuk 2:14).

You are God’s planting—keep sowing, keep growing, keep transforming lives!

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and grace to give towards God's work. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome poverty.

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GOD HAS WAYS TO BRING ORDER TO A LAWLESS NATION

 You shall receive wisdom to put you ahead of the competition because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:  

GOD HAS WAYS TO BRING ORDER TO A LAWLESS NATION

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 “When the righteous are in authority and become great, the people rejoice; But when the wicked man rules, the people groan and sigh.” – Proverbs 29:2 (AMP)

     When a nation is lawless—filled with corruption, violence, and injustice—it may seem like evil will reign forever. But God is never powerless. He has divine strategies to restore order and righteousness.

   First, He raises righteous leadership. “When the righteous are in authority…the people rejoice” (Proverbs 29:2). God looks for men and women of integrity, like Joseph and Daniel, to lead with justice and bring peace.

  Second, God sends His Word and calls for repentance. “Come now, and let us reason together,” says the LORD (Isaiah 1:18). He warns nations before judgment, giving them a chance to turn back to Him.

   If a nation refuses, God purges corruption by judgment. “I will turn My hand against you…and restore your judges as at the first” (Isaiah 1:24-26). Wicked rulers are removed so that godly governance can return.

   Sometimes, He uses external or internal pressure to humble nations. In Judges 2:14, God allowed Israel’s enemies to afflict them until they cried out for help. God uses crises to bring people to repentance.

   Finally, true order comes when hearts are changed. “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you” (Ezekiel 36:26-27). Laws alone cannot change a nation—only the Spirit of God can transform hearts.

   Beloved, if your nation is lawless, do not despair. Pray for righteous leaders, repent where necessary, and ask for a move of the Holy Spirit. God’s plan is not destruction but restoration.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to promote good governance. 

Lord, bring order to our land. Raise righteous leaders, purge corruption, and pour out Your Spirit for national revival, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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THE SPIRITUAL CONSEQUENCES OF SUPPORTING BAD LEADERSHIP.

 The curse of stagnation and confusion is broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Devotional: THE SPIRITUAL CONSEQUENCES OF SUPPORTING BAD LEADERSHIP.

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

“Then God sent an evil spirit between Abimelech and the men of Shechem; and the men of Shechem dealt treacherously with Abimelech, that the violence done…MIGHT BE REPAID.” – Judges 9:23-24 (AMP)

“Woe (judgment is coming) to you, destroyer, and you yourself have not been destroyed; and he who is treacherous, while others did not deal treacherously with him! As soon as you finish destroying, you will be destroyed; as soon as you cease dealing treacherously, others will deal treacherously with you. O Lord, be gracious to us; we have waited expectantly for You. Be our strength every morning, our salvation also in the time of trouble.” – Isaiah 33:1-2 (AMP)

   Supporting bad leadership invites destruction. In Judges 9, the people backed Abimelech—a leader who rose through bloodshed. Eventually, God allowed conflict and ruin as judgment. Isaiah 33:1-2 shows a similar principle: those who use treachery will reap treachery. Evil leaders and their supporters will face the consequences of their actions.

   When we justify wicked rulers for money, tribal loyalty, or fear, we call evil good (Isaiah 5:20) and share in their guilt (Romans 1:32). Proverbs 29:2 warns that wicked leadership brings groaning and suffering. Hosea 8:4 reminds us that installing leaders without God’s guidance leads to chaos.

   As believers, we must seek God’s will, reject compromise, and pray for righteous governance. Our allegiance is first to God, not corrupt systems.

REFLECTION QUESTION:

Am I supporting leaders based on God’s standards of righteousness or on selfish interests?

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to preach righteousness.

Lord, be gracious to us as Isaiah prayed. Forgive us where we have supported unrighteous leadership. Be our strength every morning and our salvation in times of trouble. Help us to choose and support leaders who honor You. Amen.

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HOW TO CURB THE DESPERATION TO ENTER PUBLIC OFFICE IN NIGERIA (Part 2)

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Good -Life Devotional: 

HOW TO CURB THE DESPERATION TO ENTER PUBLIC OFFICE IN NIGERIA (Part 2) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

POLICY FORMULATION TO CURB THE DESPERATION TO ENTER PUBLIC OFFICE.

   As a long term strategy God's people have to put in place policies to forestall the reoccurrence of bad governance in Nigeria.

  Here’s a policy and scriptural framework for stopping desperation for political office and ensuring financial accountability:

1. STRENGTHEN FINANCIAL GOVERNANCE (Multiple Signatories & Finance Committee)

Policy:

+Create a Finance Committee at state and local government levels.

+Withdrawals must require the signatures of Governor/Chairman + 2 other independent officials before banks honor transactions. The Bible says in 

Proverbs 11:14 (AMP) – “Where there is no [wise, intelligent] guidance, the people fall, but in the abundance of [wise and godly] counselors there is victory.”

Also in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 – “Two are better than one… for if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion.”

This supports shared responsibility and checks & balances.

2. TRANSPARENCY AND PUBLIC DISCLOSURE

Policy:

Publish monthly income and expenditure reports online and on notice boards.

Allow  chief security officers (CSOs) and the media to monitor accounts.

  The Bible says in Ephesians 5:11 (AMP) – “Do not participate in the worthless and unproductive deeds of darkness, but instead expose them [by exemplifying personal integrity, moral courage, and godly character].”

Also in Luke 8:17 – “For there is nothing hidden that will not become evident, nor anything secret that will not be known and come out into the open.”

   This reinforces openness and public accountability.

3. TECHNOLOGY-BASED FINANCIAL CONTROLS

Policy:

+Implement TSA for states and LGAs.

+ Use digital approval platforms and audit trails for payments.

The Bible says in Habakkuk 2:2 – “Write the vision and engrave it plainly… so that the one who reads it will run.”

This calls for clear, traceable documentation to prevent corruption.

4. LEGAL & INSTITUTIONAL REFORMS

Policy:

+ Make unilateral withdrawal of funds a criminal offense.

+ Strengthen Auditor-General and anti-corruption agencies for real-time audits. 

The Bible says Isaiah 10:1-2 – “Woe to those [judges] who issue evil statutes and to those [magistrates] who constantly record unjust and oppressive decisions.”

This condemns unjust governance and enforces righteous law.

5. REDUCE DESPERATION FOR OFFICE

Policy:

+ Peg salaries of politicians to civil service scale.

+ Remove unchecked security votes.

+ Promote service-oriented leadership through civic education. 

The Bible says in 1 Timothy 6:9-10 – “But those who [are not financially ethical and] crave to get rich… fall into temptation and a trap…” 

Also in Mark 10:43-44 – “Whoever wishes to become great among you must be your servant.”

This addresses greed and promotes servant leadership.

These policies have to be presented before God and prayers made over them daily for them  to succeed . 

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and boldness to preach against corruption 

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome temptation 

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HOW TO CURB THE DESPERATION TO ENTER PUBLIC OFFICE IN NIGERIA (part 1)

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Good-life Devotional: HOW TO CURB THE DESPERATION TO ENTER PUBLIC OFFICE IN NIGERIA  (part 1)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   Proverbs 29:2 'When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice: but when the wicked beareth rule, the people mourn."

  Psalms 125:3 "For the rod of the wicked shall not rest upon the lot of the righteous; lest the righteous put forth their hands unto iniquity."

   The desperation to enter elected office mainly stems from easy access to public funds and the absence of strong accountability mechanisms. To address this while ensuring that funds are protected and processes are decentralized, here are practical measures:

 1. STRENGTHEN FINANCIAL GOVERNANCE STRUCTURES

  Establish a Finance Committee at both state and local government levels comprising:

1) The Governor/Chairman

2)Commissioner for Finance or equivalent

3)Representative of the State Assembly or Local Legislature

4) Accountant General or Treasurer

All major withdrawals should require multiple signatories (e.g., Governor + 2 other INDEPENDENT officials) before bank honors any transaction.

Implement dual verification through electronic platforms and physical checks.

 2. ENFORCE TRANSPARENCY AND PUBLIC DISCLOSURE

Mandate monthly publication of income and expenditure on official portals and public notice boards.

Create a citizen oversight platform where verified CSOs (Civil Society Organizations) and media can monitor funds in real-time.

 3. INTRODUCE TECHNOLOGY-BASED CONTROLS

-Use Treasury Single Account (TSA) at state and local levels.

-Adopt blockchain or digital tracking systems for government expenditures to prevent hidden withdrawals.

-Automate approvals to reduce human interference and opportunities for collusion.

4. LEGAL & INSTITUTIONAL REFORMS

+ Amend the Financial Regulations to make unilateral withdrawal of funds a criminal offense.

+ Empower Auditor General and EFCC/ICPC to carry out pre-audit checks, not just post-audit.

+ Create independent procurement boards to monitor contract awards and payments.

 5. REDUCE DESPERATION FOR OFFICE

Peg salaries and allowances of politicians to the same scale as senior civil servants.

+ Remove lump-sum security votes or subject them to scrutiny.

+ Introduce performance-based incentives instead of automatic access to state resources.

 Preachers are expected to sensitize church members regularly on the importance of good governance.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word godly leadership in all areas of governance .

PRAYER : Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for good governance.

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GOD IS LEAST INTERESTED IN CHURCH CONVENTIONS AND SACRIFICES

 You shall not be disgraced because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: GOD IS LEAST INTERESTED IN CHURCH CONVENTIONS AND SACRIFICES

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

    Many assume that church conventions, seminars, and monthly sacrifices please God, but Scripture says otherwise. In Isaiah 1:4, God laments, “Ah, sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity…” Despite endless gatherings and offerings, our society groans under corruption, insecurity, and hardship. Verse 7 declares, “Your country is desolate, your cities are burned with fire…”—a reflection of the current reality where terrorism and economic decay prevail.

    Jesus Christ came with a clear message: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 4:17). Sadly, this call to repentance has been replaced with sermons that glorify covetousness—urging people to “sow seeds” for breakthroughs rather than pursue holiness. Yet, 2 Peter 2:5 reminds us that God spared not the ancient world but saved Noah, a preacher of righteousness. This shows God values righteousness above rituals.

    True peace and stability in any nation come through righteousness. Isaiah 32:17 declares, “The work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness, quietness and assurance forever.” No amount of offerings can substitute for godly living. That is why Jesus commanded, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness” (Matthew 6:33).

   If we are willing and obedient, Isaiah 1:19 promises, “You shall eat the good of the land.” What God desires is not empty ceremonies but hearts transformed by truth (Micah 6:8). Let us return to preaching repentance and righteousness, for that is the only way our nation will experience lasting peace and prosperity.

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and boldness to preach righteousness.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome temptation.

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STEPS TO ENCOURAGE THOSE STRUGGLING WITH DEPRESSION: (Part 2)

  The yoke of the overwhelming fear of failure is broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: STEPS TO ENCOURAGE THOSE STRUGGLING WITH DEPRESSION: (Part 2) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

GOD HEALS WOUNDS 

Emotional wounds are as real as physical ones, but God is the ultimate healer. He doesn’t ignore your scars—He binds them.

The scripture says : “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” – Psalm 147:3

TAKE ACTION: Spend at least 5 minutes in silence, picturing God gently binding your heart through his warm embrace. 

 GIVE HIM YOUR BURDENS Depression adds weight you’re not meant to carry. God invites you to hand it over. Worry does not translate to care . Worrying destroys our happiness , health and relationships. 

The Scripture says : “Cast your cares on the LORD and He will sustain you.” – Psalm 55:22

TAKE ACTION: Write down your heaviest burden, then pray: “Lord, I give this to You.” God is a consuming fire , Symbolically,Set the written list of burdens on fire in a safe place while saying God has taken them away and you shall not worry about them anymore. 

YOU’RE NOT ALONE Darkness may surround you, but you are never alone. God is your Shepherd, guiding you step by step.

The Scripture says : “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for You are with me.” – Psalm 23:4

TAKE ACTION: Declare: “God is with me right now.,  I am not alone  "

HOPE IN THE WAITING Healing takes time, but God’s goodness will appear. Don’t quit. Stay expectant.

The Scripture says : “I will see the goodness of the LORD… Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart.” – Psalm 27:13-14

TAKE ACTION: Spend about 5 minutes praying: “Lord, I choose to hope in You today and always.”

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and perseverance.

PRAYERS: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to persevere.

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HOW TO ENCOURAGE PERSONS STRUGGLING WITH DEPRESSION: (Part 1)

 The yoke of overwhelming depression is broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: HOW TO ENCOURAGE PERSONS STRUGGLING WITH DEPRESSION: (Part 1) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 GOD IS NEAR : Depression often makes us feel alone, but God angels draws closer when we are hurting. He doesn’t turn away from your pain—He enters it.

The Scripture says “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18 , Psalm 91:15 

TAKE ACTION: Whisper a simple prayer today: “Lord, thank You for being near me even in my lowest moments.

SPEAK TO YOUR SOUL(emotions, intellect, senses , will ) Depression talks to us, but we can talk back. Tell your soul to hope in God. Praise, even in pain, brings light into darkness. 

The Scripture says  “Why, my soul, are you downcast? … Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him.” – Psalm 42:5

TAKE ACTION: Write down one reason to hope in God today and thank Him for it. Always remember and talk past breakthroughs. 

THE NIGHT WON’T LAST

Depression gives an image of never ending sorrow. Seasons of darkness are temporary. Joy will return because God promises it.

The scripture says : “Weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” – Psalm 30:5

TAKEN ACTION: Say aloud: “This season will not last. God’s joy is coming for me. My breakthrough is near ” Act like you already have it. Sing , dance , celebrate in advance. Congratulations. 

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and manifestation of the fruits of the Holy Spirit.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and receive the Holy Spirit and joy of the spirit.

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EXPOSING THE SPELL OF FALSE PREACHERS WHO SERVE CORRUPT LEADERS

 You are protected against witchcraft manipulations because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: 

EXPOSING THE SPELL OF FALSE PREACHERS WHO SERVE CORRUPT LEADERS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

SCRIPTURE FOCUS:

“They have seduced My people, saying, ‘Peace!’ when there is no peace.” – Ezekiel 13:10 (AMP Bible )

In every generation, false prophets arise to deceive, serving as tools for ungodly rulers. In Jeremiah 28, Hananiah falsely promised Israel that their captivity in Babylon would end in two years, pacifying the people despite their rebellion against God. This is a mirror of what happens today in many African nations, where corrupt leaders enlist preachers to promise citizens a better life while looting public resources.

Ezekiel 13 warns of such preachers who declare “peace” when there is none. Their messages create a false sense of security, silencing the righteous outcry against bad governance and perpetuating bondage. Citizens trusting these lies become passive, unable to demand justice or righteousness.

God has decreed judgment on these deceivers. Job 15:34 says, “The congregation of hypocrites shall be desolate.” 2 Peter 2:1-3 calls them exploiters who fabricate stories for profit. But God promises deliverance: “I will deliver My people out of your hand, and you shall know that I am the LORD” (Ezekiel 13:23).

Beloved, do not fall for the illusion of prosperity preached in partnership with evil. Stand firm on truth. Pray daily against these manipulative voices, for only God’s Word brings real hope and freedom (John 8:32).

PRAYER POINT: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome evil . 

Father, expose and silence every false prophet speaking lies to sustain corrupt systems. Deliver our nations from deceptive voices and raise leaders who fear You, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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GOD'S JUDGEMENT AGAINST A NATION WITH A COMPROMISED JUDICIARY ( part 2 )

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Good -Life Devotional: GOD'S JUDGEMENT AGAINST A NATION WITH A COMPROMISED JUDICIARY  ( part 2 ) 

  Isaiah 1:4,7 "Ah sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, a seed of evildoers, children that are corrupters: they have forsaken the LORD, they have provoked the Holy One of Israel unto anger, they are gone away backward.

[7]Your country is desolate, your cities are burned with fire: your land, strangers devour it in your presence, and it is desolate, as overthrown by strangers." A nation with a compromised judiciary shall suffer retrogression. Here are more of the consequences of this evil .

RISE OF OCCULTISM – People seek evil alternatives (Micah 3:11).

ETERNAL JUDGMENT ON JUDGES – “God will bring every work into judgment” (Ecclesiastes 12:14). The guilty and their supporters will not enter heaven .(1 Corinthians 6:10 ] , 1 Corinthians 15:50]" ...neither doth corruption inherit incorruption."

BIBLICAL SOLUTIONS Include : 

A) EXPOSE CORRUPTION: Speak boldly against evil (Ephesians 5:11; Proverbs 31:8-9).

B) REFUSE BRIBERY: Reject Greek gifts that come as palliatives and giveaways “You shall take no bribe” (Exodus 23:8).

C) MOBILIZE FOR JUSTICE: Demand accountability (Isaiah 1:17).

D) PERSISTENT PRAYER: God avenges His elect (Luke 18:7, Ezekiel 11: 1- 12  ).

E) RAISE GOD-FEARING LEADERS: Acts 6:3 calls for men of integrity.

Even when human judges fail, God remains the ultimate Judge. He will “bring every deed into judgment” (Ecclesiastes 12:14). The Church must rise to teach righteousness, defend the oppressed, and trust God for divine justice.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and boldness to expose and resist bad governance. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome temptation.

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GOD'S JUDGEMENT AGAINST A NATION WITH A COMPROMISED JUDICIARY ( part 1)

 The conspiracy against you shall fail because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: 

GOD'S JUDGEMENT AGAINST A NATION WITH A COMPROMISED JUDICIARY  ( part 1) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   When the judiciary becomes corrupt, democracy and justice are endangered and it hinders the promotion of the gospel. Isaiah 5:20 warns: “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil.” Verse 23 condemns judges who “justify the wicked for a bribe.” God’s judgment is clear: “As fire devours stubble… their root will be as rottenness” (Isaiah 5:24-25).

Here are some of the Consequences of a Compromised Judiciary

GOD’S WRATH ON THE NATION – Injustice provokes divine anger (Isaiah 5:25).

LOSS OF STABILITY – “He who receives bribes overthrows it” (Proverbs 29:4).

VIOLENCE AND BLOODSHED – Lawlessness rises (Ezekiel 7:23).

ECONOMIC COLLAPSE – Corruption kills trust and development (Proverbs 29:7).

OPPRESSION OF THE INNOCENT – Amos 5:12 warns of injustice against the poor.

REJECTED PRAYERS – God refuses worship in an unjust land (Isaiah 1:15).

LOSS OF NATIONAL HONOR – “Righteousness exalts a nation” (Proverbs 14:34).

LEADERSHIP CONFUSION – Disorder follows compromised courts (Isaiah 3:12).

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and boldness to speak against the  evil in society .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to promote your kingdom. 

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OVERCOMING A COMPROMISED JUDICIARY IN ELECTIONS

 The evil verdict against shall be overturned because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: OVERCOMING A COMPROMISED JUDICIARY IN ELECTIONS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

    In many nations, especially during elections, the judiciary is expected to uphold justice. However, when courts become tools for manipulation, truth suffers. Isaiah 5:20 warns, “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness.” Verse 23 condemns those “who justify the wicked for a bribe, and take away justice from the righteous.” God’s response to such corruption is severe: “As the fire devours the stubble… their root will be as rottenness” (Isaiah 5:24). Verse 25 declares His anger burns against such a nation.

   How then should the people respond when the judiciary is compromised? First, believers must refuse to participate in injustice. Exodus 23:8 states, “You shall take no bribe, for a bribe blinds the discerning and perverts the words of the righteous.” Christians must speak out boldly against judicial corruption, as Proverbs 31:8-9 commands: “Open your mouth for the speechless… defend the rights of the poor and needy.”

    Secondly, prayer and prophetic declaration are powerful weapons. In Luke 18:7, Jesus assures that God will “avenge His elect who cry out day and night to Him.” Persistent intercession can turn the tide.

  Lastly, the Church must educate society on integrity, holding leaders accountable. Isaiah 1:17 urges us: “Seek justice, rebuke the oppressor; defend the fatherless.”

    Though corrupt judges may pervert justice temporarily, God remains the ultimate Judge, and He will “bring every work into judgment” (Ecclesiastes 12:14).

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and his judgement against unrepentant corrupt judges .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome corruption.

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THE WEAPONIZATION OF PHILANTHROPY TO ENSLAVE THE CHURCH

 You shall not fall into the trap of the enemy because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: THE WEAPONIZATION OF PHILANTHROPY TO ENSLAVE THE CHURCH

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

In 2 Kings 18:23, the king of Assyria mockingly offered horses to King Hezekiah, symbolizing a deceptive gesture meant to weaken Judah. Similarly, in modern Africa, corrupt politicians use philanthropy as a weapon to enslave the church and the masses. These so-called “empowerment programs” and handouts are often strategic distractions, masking massive looting of public treasuries through inflated contracts. What appears as generosity is frequently a tool for perpetuating oppression and silencing prophetic voices.

   God demands honesty and transparency in governance. Proverbs 11:1 says, “A false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is His delight.” This principle underpins why developed nations have procurement systems to prevent over-inflation of contracts. Unfortunately, many preachers in Africa replicate the same corrupt model, using manipulated “seed sowing” schemes and staged philanthropy to exploit God’s people.

    Jesus condemned such hypocrisy in Matthew 6:1-4, warning against giving for show or manipulation. Today, fraudsters on social media deploy similar tactics, baiting the vulnerable with giveaways to scam them. These acts are designed to make an evil system look good while keeping people dependent and voiceless.

   Christians must reject individual-based governance that promotes personal loyalty over accountability. Instead, we should advocate for system-based governance rooted in righteousness and justice (Proverbs 29:2). The church must rise above the chains of corrupt philanthropy and demand integrity, because true empowerment comes from truth, not from deceptive gifts.

Scripture References: Proverbs 17:23, Micah 6:8, Isaiah 1:23.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the spirit of discernment.

PRAYER :  Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome poverty.

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THE CHURCH AND SOCIAL ORIENTATION FOR GOOD GOVERNANCE

 

The yoke of unpaid debts shall be broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: 

THE CHURCH AND SOCIAL ORIENTATION FOR GOOD GOVERNANCE

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   The church is called not only to preach salvation but also to be a light in society, guiding communities toward righteousness and justice. Scripture declares that the church is “built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus Himself as the chief cornerstone” (Ephesians 2:20). Just as the church rests on divine truth, society must also be built on honesty and justice. Paul reminds us, “The Lord knows those who are His, and let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity” (2 Timothy 2:19). This means only honest persons with proven capacity should be entrusted with leadership (Acts 6:3).

   The church has a responsibility to mobilize parishioners against the selling of votes and the enthronement of corrupt leaders. Members should spread this message in schools, markets, and public spaces: righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach (Proverbs 14:34). When believers compromise, society suffers.

   False preachers , who enrich themselves through corrupt governments, must be avoided. Jeremiah 23:17 warns that they encourage evildoers and never speak against bad governance. Ezekiel 13:22 says they “discourage the righteous” while strengthening the hands of the wicked. Such preachers equate godliness with wealth (1 Timothy 6:5), but godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).

The church must therefore raise its voice as a prophetic voice of conscience. By teaching truth, rejecting corruption, and demanding justice, it fulfills Christ’s command: “You are the salt of the earth… You are the light of the world” (Matthew 5:13–14).

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and righteous leadership in every sphere of governance.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome the evil one.

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BIBLICAL WAYS TO PREVENT RIGGING OF ELECTIONS IN NIGERIA WITH A CORRUPTED ELECTORAL UMPIRE

 The diabolical structures designed to enslave you shall be destroyed because of the anointing of God's favour upon you. 

Good -Life Devotional: 

BIBLICAL WAYS TO PREVENT RIGGING OF ELECTIONS IN NIGERIA WITH A CORRUPTED ELECTORAL UMPIRE

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

Nigeria’s democratic progress is often threatened by election rigging, especially when the electoral umpire itself is compromised. Yet, a vigilant and united people can safeguard their mandate. Here are some biblical and practical ways:

1. MASS VOTER EDUCATION – “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge” (Hosea 4:6). Citizens must be enlightened in churches , mosques market places etc about their rights and the dangers of selling votes.

2. CIVIL SOCIETY MONITORING – Independent groups should observe polling and collation centers, raising alarms when irregularities occur (Ezekiel 33:7).

3. TECHNOLOGY & TRANSPARENCY – Biometric accreditation and electronic transmission of results minimize human interference (John 3:21).

4. PARALLEL VOTE TABULATION – NGOs and citizens can independently count votes at polling units to compare with official tallies, exposing fraud.

5. WHISTLEBLOWER PROTECTION – Honest insiders should be shielded when exposing corruption, reflecting “have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them” (Ephesians 5:11).

6. COMMUNITY POLICING OF VOTES – Set up vigilante squads.  Peaceful guarding of ballots prevents snatching or tampering, fulfilling “be watchful, stand firm in the faith” (1 Corinthians 16:13).

7. JUDICIAL ACCOUNTABILITY – Special electoral courts must swiftly punish riggers. Scripture affirms, “Woe to those who decree unrighteous decrees” (Isaiah 10:1).

8. MEDIA TRANSPARENCY – Free press and social media must boldly report results and irregularities (John 8:32).

9. INTERNATIONAL PRESSURE – Credible foreign observers can discourage manipulation through sanctions and global exposure.

10. MORAL REORIENTATION – Religious leaders must remind Nigerians that “righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people” (Proverbs 14:34).

In conclusion, even with a corrupt umpire, rigging is not inevitable. A vigilant, prayerful, and courageous people can defend truth and ensure that leadership reflects the genuine will of the people.

   In our daily prayers seek a healthy appetite for God's word and deliverance from bad governance.

PRAYERS: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for good governance.

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GOD’S JUDGEMENT AGAINST VOTE SELLING AND BUYING IN NIGERIA

 You shall not be put to shame because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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GOD’S JUDGEMENT AGAINST VOTE SELLING AND BUYING IN NIGERIA

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

     In every election season, many exchange their votes for money, food, or empty promises. Yet, God’s Word warns that “righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people” (Proverbs 14:34). When citizens sell their votes and leaders buy power with corruption, they sow seeds of judgment that bring bitter harvests to the land.

   One consequence is the increase in terrorism and insecurity. Without godly leadership, violent men rise to oppress the people (Proverbs 28:2). Families also suffer marital failures, for dishonest wealth brings distrust and brokenness (Proverbs 16:8). Those who profit from corrupt votes often face sicknesses and afflictions, because ill-gotten gain carries curses (Deuteronomy 28:22).

   Businesses do not prosper under stolen mandates; instead, corruption causes economic collapse and currency devaluation (Isaiah 1:22). Even the preaching of the gospel is hindered, for wicked rulers suppress truth and promote darkness (Proverbs 29:2).

   The church is not exempt—many believers fall into backsliding, influenced by corrupt leadership (1 Corinthians 15:33). Such an atmosphere gives room for the rise of occultism and witchcraft in politics and society (1 Samuel 15:23). Worse still, these sins attract generational curses, for God declared: “Cursed is anyone who accepts a bribe to shed innocent blood” (Deuteronomy 27:25).

   If Nigeria refuses to repent, the end result is national destruction. God removes His hand of blessing, and the land is left in reproach and hardship.

Beloved, selling and buying votes is not just political corruption—it is a spiritual rebellion against God. Let us stand for truth, refuse bribes, and pray for righteous leaders, for only then will peace, prosperity, and godliness reign.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and righteousness in the land .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome temptation.

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WAYS THE CHURCH CAN STOP THE SELLING OF VOTES IN NIGERIA

 You shall be a light wherever you are found because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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WAYS THE CHURCH CAN STOP THE SELLING OF VOTES IN NIGERIA

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   The Nigerian church has a vital role to play in curbing the menace of vote-selling, a practice that weakens democracy and enthrones corrupt leadership. Scripture warns in Exodus 23:8: “You shall not take a bribe, for a bribe blinds the clear-sighted.” Selling votes is no different—it blinds citizens to truth and justice.

Selling votes brings about increase in poverty and insecurity . Those who do so will not go unpunished by the lord .

    First, the church must teach biblical integrity by showing that righteousness exalts a nation (Proverbs 14:34). Members should understand that their votes are sacred seeds for the nation’s future. Second, churches should educate believers on civic responsibility, organizing voter awareness forums. Third, leaders must boldly condemn vote-buying from the pulpit, calling it sin.

   Fourth, through prayer and intercession (2 Chronicles 7:14), the church can weaken the spiritual witchcraft powers behind corruption. Fifth, members must be held accountable before God and their community for their political actions. Sixth, the church should support credible, God-fearing candidates, rather than staying neutral when evil men rise.

    Seventh, economic empowerment is key, since poverty drives many to sell their votes. Skill acquisition, welfare, and financial literacy programs can help overcome the temptation to sell votes . Eighth, churches should form civic engagement platforms to monitor elections and partner with NGOs for free and fair polls. Ninth, discipline should be applied to members who participate in vote-selling, showing it is unacceptable before God (1Corintians 5:11) 

Finally, church leaders must lead by example, refusing political bribes. When the church remains pure, it can boldly declare, like Paul, “We have renounced disgraceful, underhanded ways” (2 Corinthians 4:2).

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and deliverance from corrupt preaches and leaders .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome corruption.

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DON’T MISINTERPRET GOD’S LONG-SUFFERING FOR SLACKNESS

 The yoke of the oppressor shall be broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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DON’T MISINTERPRET GOD’S LONG-SUFFERING FOR SLACKNESS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

    Many times, God’s people are oppressed and afflicted across the world, and one might expect Him to swiftly unleash His wrath upon the wicked. Yet Scripture reminds us in 2 Peter 3:9 that “The Lord is not slack concerning His promise… but is long-suffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” God’s patience is not weakness, but mercy. He delays judgment because of the eternal reality of hellfire—so dreadful that He takes no pleasure in anyone ending there (Ezekiel 33:11).

   The truth is that “there is not a righteous man on earth who continually does good and never sins” (Ecclesiastes 7:20). “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Since “the wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23), if God judged us as quickly as we wish He judged others, none would stand. As the psalmist confessed, “If You, Lord, should mark iniquities, O Lord, who could stand?” (Psalm 130:3). Indeed, “we have sinned, even as our fathers” (Psalm 106:6).

   Therefore, the right response to oppression is not bitterness but prayer—crying to God for deliverance from evil and asking Him to open the eyes of the wicked, that they may repent and be saved. Jesus Himself taught us to pray for our enemies (Matthew 5:44), and Paul urged that “supplications, prayers, intercessions… be made for all people” (1 Timothy 2:1-4).

   God’s justice will surely come, but until then, let us walk in patience, hope, and fervent intercession, trusting His timing and mercy.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the fruit of long-suffering and perseverance in the Spirit .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to forgive .

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