FOLLOWING CORRUPT POLITICIANS AND PREACHERS FOR LOVE OF MONEY EXPOSES FAMILIES TO DEMONIC MANIPULATIONS

 The evil verdict against you shall be overturned because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: FOLLOWING CORRUPT POLITICIANS AND PREACHERS FOR LOVE OF MONEY EXPOSES FAMILIES TO DEMONIC MANIPULATIONS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   The Scripture warns that “God sent an evil spirit between Abimelech and the men of Shechem” (Judges 9:23 AMP) because of their ungodly alliance rooted in ambition and greed. Likewise, many Christians and families today open demonic doors through partnerships with corrupt politicians or preachers driven by the love of money. Such alliances attract the same evil spirits that once plagued Abimelech’s generation, producing strife, confusion, and moral decay.

    When believers compromise for material gain, they expose their souls to satanic manipulations. The spirit of deception that influenced Ahab and his prophets in 1 Kings 22:20–22 still operates where truth is traded for personal advantage. Many of the struggles Christians face—sexual perversion, addiction, lying, infidelity, addiction to pornography and drugs and tormenting dreams—stem from spiritual contamination caused by these ungodly associations.

   Paul warned that “those who crave to be rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction” (1 Timothy 6:9 AMP). Such greed leads to spiritual bondage, even to the point of selling one’s soul to Satan. The Word commands, “Withdraw yourself from every brother who is sexually immoral or greedy” (1 Corinthians 5:11) and “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers” (2 Corinthians 6:14).

    The Holy Spirit must guide your political and spiritual affiliations, for eternal consequences await the fearful, the unbelieving, and the corrupt (Revelation 21:8). Let integrity and righteousness—not greed—govern your choices, for “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his soul?” (Mark 8:36).

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and godliness and contentment.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome corruption.

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DO NOT SAY IT IS WELL WHILE UNDER ATTACK RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE

 You are beyond the reach of witchcraft manipulations because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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DO NOT SAY IT IS WELL WHILE UNDER ATTACK RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

    As a believer in Jesus Christ, we are commanded to “submit to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7 AMP). Many Christians often say, “It is well,” while enduring satanic attacks, forgetting that passivity is not a weapon of warfare. That's Nigerian Christians are being  slain en mass and impoverished as a result of wicked people in power and it's getting worse due to their passivity  in fighting corruption and bad governance.Saying it is well makes things worse . Jesus never did neither did his disciples .(see Acts 5, 2cornthians 10:6) 

   The devil thrives on fear, ignorance, and inaction. To resist him effectively, we must first submit completely to God’s authority and align our hearts with His Word.

The enemy often attacks through thoughts, imaginations, and suggestions that contradict Scripture. The Apostle Paul teaches that we must “cast down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God” (2 Corinthians 10:5–6). Every negative or fearful thought must be confronted with the truth of God’s Word. When Satan tempted Jesus in the wilderness, Jesus resisted by declaring, “It is written.” This is our model for victory.

Resisting the devil means standing firm in faith, prayer, and confession. It means refusing to yield to temptation, depression, fear, or anger. When you speak the Word of God boldly, you remind the enemy that you know your authority in Christ. Luke 10:19 declares that believers have power over all the power of the enemy.

Do not tolerate demonic oppression or accept defeat as normal. Submit to God, stay filled with His Spirit, and resist the devil steadfastly. When you stand firm on the Word, the devil will flee in terror, for he cannot withstand a believer who knows and exercises divine authority in Christ Jesus.

  PRAYER Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome poverty.

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MODEL PRAYER TO CAST OUT THE EVIL GENERATIONAL SPIRIT OF STRIFE

 

The anointing of God's favour upon you is breaking the barriers hindering your progress now.
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MODEL PRAYER TO CAST OUT THE EVIL GENERATIONAL SPIRIT OF STRIFE

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
    Heavenly Father, I come before You today in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. I acknowledge that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Saviour. I bring myself and my entire family under the covering of the precious blood of Jesus. By the authority given to believers in Matthew 18:18, I bind and disallow every operation of demonic spirits in my family. I command every evil generational spirit of strife, contention, and division to come out of my lineage right now, never to return again, in the name of Jesus Christ!
   Lord Jesus, as You rebuked the unclean spirit in Mark 9:25, I take the same authority as Your follower and command every spirit causing anger, quarrel, misunderstanding, and hatred to depart from my family. For it is written that You have given us power over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:17–19), and nothing shall by any means hurt us.
    At the mention of the name of Jesus, every knee must bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord (Philippians 2:10). Therefore, I decree that every demonic influence operating in my bloodline bows now to the Lordship of Jesus Christ.
     Father, I pray that You will send preachers, teachers, and witnesses of the gospel to my family. Open their eyes to understand the Scriptures and make their hearts receptive to Your Word. Let Your peace, love, and unity reign in our home, in Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.
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CAST OUT THE EVIL GENERATIONAL SPIRIT OF STRIFE

 Your family is under a covenant of divine preservation because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: CAST OUT THE EVIL GENERATIONAL SPIRIT OF STRIFE

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

    The spirit of strife is one of the most destructive demonic influences in families and relationships. In 1 Samuel 18:10–11, Saul, under a tormenting spirit, was driven by jealousy and strife to attempt to kill David. This same demonic spirit operates in many Christian homes today, causing quarrels, separations, and failed marriages. James 3:16 (AMP) says, “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing.” Strife is a gateway through which demons gain access to families.

  God warns us in Proverbs 22:24–25 not to make friends with hot-tempered people, lest we learn their ways and ensnare our souls. In today’s digital age, joining social media groups filled with angry, immoral, or contentious persons exposes one to demonic influence. Infidelity, gossip, and bitterness thrive in such spaces, contrary to God’s Word which commands separation from evil associations (2 Corinthians 6:14–17).

    Generational quarrels and family disputes are often perpetuated by these spirits. But Jesus Christ has given us authority over all demonic powers. Mark 16:17 declares that believers shall cast out demons in His name, and Luke 10:19 assures us of power over all the enemy’s works. Therefore, daily bind the activities of the spirit of strife in your home and cast them into the abyss in the name of Jesus (Matthew 18:18). Engage faithful family intercessors to cover your household in prayer (Ephesians 6:12–18). Walk in love, peace, and unity—where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty (2 Corinthians 3:17).

   In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and boldness to resist the devil .

PRAYER : Heaven Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to resist the devil .

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THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY PRAYER INTERCESSORS

 You shall not be overwhelmed by your problems because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY PRAYER INTERCESSORS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

Psalms 72:15

 And he shall live, and to him shall be given of the gold of Sheba: prayer also shall be made for him continually; and daily shall he be praised." 

King Solomon's success was partly due to him being prayed for on a daily basis. Prayer creates room for the manifestation of the miraculous power of God. We need miracles on a daily basis in our families.

    Family prayer intercessors play a vital role in ensuring that every member of the household stands “perfect and fully assured in all the will of God” (Colossians 4:12 AMP). Just as Epaphras labored fervently in prayer for the believers at Colossae, every family needs someone—or everyone—committed to interceding for God’s purpose to be fulfilled in their lives. Intercession shields the family from unseen attacks, strengthens faith, and keeps their hearts aligned with divine purpose.

Apostle Paul frequently requested prayers from the saints, acknowledging the power of collective intercession. He wrote, “You also joining and helping us through your prayers” (2 Corinthians 1:11 AMP), showing that even great spiritual leaders depend on prayer support for fruitfulness and preservation. Through intercession, God opens doors of opportunity—Paul said, “Pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word” (Colossians 4:3 ESV). A praying family experiences divine access, breakthrough, and deliverance.

Furthermore, “pray that the word of the Lord may spread rapidly and be honored... and that we may be delivered from wicked and evil people” (2 Thessalonians 3:1–2 NIV). This reminds us that intercession not only protects but also advances God’s kingdom agenda in our families.

   In addition, 1 Timothy 2:1–2 encourages “supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings... for all men.” When a family stands united in prayer, they build a hedge of divine protection (Ezekiel 22:30) and release God’s favor upon generations. A praying family truly becomes a victorious family, walking in the fullness of God’s will and power.

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and intercessors praying for us. 

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to pray .

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TEN BLESSINGS ON THE FAMILY THAT FEARS GOD

 

Your family shall not lack provisions because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.
Good -Life Devotional: TEN BLESSINGS ON THE FAMILY THAT FEARS GOD

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
   The family that fears the Lord enjoys divine favor, prosperity, and enduring legacy. Psalm 112 beautifully outlines ten blessings reserved for such a household. Deuteronomy 14:23 teaches that “the purpose of the tithe is to learn to fear the Lord your God always.” The fear of God is not terror, but deep reverence, obedience, and devotion.
  Before Moses made it a law ,  Abraham demonstrated this fear when he gave tithes to Melchizedek, the priest of the Most High God (Genesis 14:18–20). His grandson Jacob made the same vow in Genesis 28:22, saying, “Of all that You give me, I will surely give a tenth to You.” This principle was not born from the Law of Moses but from the fear and honor of God. Isaiah 51:1–2 reminds believers, “Look to Abraham your father… for I called him alone, blessed him, and increased him.” Those who pursue righteousness are called to model his faith, obedience, and giving spirit.
   According to Psalm 112, the family that fears God enjoys these ten blessings:
1) BLESSEDNESS AND JOY – “Blessed is the man who fears the Lord” (v.1).
2) MIGHTY OFFSPRING – “His seed shall be mighty upon earth” (v.2).
3) GENERATIONAL UPRIGHTNESS – “The generation of the upright shall be blessed” (v.2).
4) WEALTH AND RICHES – “Wealth and riches shall be in his house” (v.3).
5) ENDURING RIGHTEOUSNESS – “His righteousness endures forever” (v.3).
6) LIGHT IN DARKNESS – “Unto the upright there arises light in the darkness” (v.4).
7) DIVINE FAVOR AND MERCY – “He is gracious, and full of compassion” (v.4).
8)STABILITY AND SECURITY – “Surely he shall not be moved forever” (v.6).
9)VICTORY OVER FEAR AND ENEMIES – “His heart is established; he shall not be afraid” (v.8).
10) EVERLASTING REMEMBRANCE – “The righteous shall be in everlasting remembrance” (v.6).
    In the New Testament, the principle of giving continues as an expression of reverence and partnership in God’s work. Galatians 6:6 (AMP) commands, “The one who is taught the word of God is to share all good things with his teacher [contributing to his spiritual and material support].” Likewise, 1 Corinthians 16:1–2 instructs believers to “set aside a sum of money on the first day of every week, in keeping with their income, to support the work of the ministry.”
   Thus, giving remains a sacred act of worship that demonstrates our fear of the Lord, our gratitude, and our faith in His provision. As Proverbs 14:26 declares, “In the fear of the Lord is strong confidence, and His children shall have a place of refuge.”
    The family that fears God and honors Him with their substance will never lack — their generation will shine as a light in the world.
In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the grace for giving to God's work.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power get wealth.
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THE FAMILY THAT FEARS GOD

 The generarional cycle of poverty is broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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THE FAMILY THAT FEARS GOD

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   A family that fears God is one that walks in total obedience, reverence, and trust in Him. Abraham stands as a timeless example of such devotion. Out of reverence and holy fear, he left his homeland to follow God’s call (Genesis 12:1-4), trusted Him for a son in old age, and was even willing to sacrifice Isaac, his only son of promise (Genesis 22:12). Abraham also demonstrated the fear of God through his giving—he instituted the tithe long before the Law, offering a tenth of all to Melchizedek as a mark of worship and gratitude (Genesis 14:20). His grandson Jacob continued in this covenant, vowing to give a tenth to God (Genesis 28:22).

     Deuteronomy 14:23 teaches that the purpose of tithing is to “learn always to fear the Lord your God.” In the New Testament, this principle of generous giving continues. Believers are commanded to support the work of the Gospel—“each one should set aside a sum in keeping with his income” (1 Corinthians 16:1-2), and “let him who is taught the word share in all good things with him who teaches” (Galatians 6:6).

     Couples must therefore prayerfully seek God for faith and grace to remain consistent in giving. Psalm 112 declares that those who fear the Lord shall have “wealth and riches in their house” and “will not fear bad news.” The fear of God not only brings prosperity but also secures marriages from infidelity, strife, and destruction (Proverbs 19:23; Ecclesiastes 12:13).

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and grace give towards God's work .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome poverty.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTORING IN MARRIAGE

 You shall not fall into the enemy's temptation because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTORING IN MARRIAGE

By Rev  Michael Benson Ajayi 

   Mentoring in marriage is a vital tool for building strong, godly relationships that reflect Christ’s love and wisdom. In Titus 2:3–5 (AMP), older women are instructed to “teach what is right and good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be self-controlled, chaste, homemakers, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.” This divine instruction emphasizes that mentorship in marriage preserves godly order and prevents the name of the Lord from being blasphemed through broken homes and poor conduct.

   The relationship between Ruth and Naomi is a powerful example of mentoring. Naomi guided Ruth not only in matters of faith but also in relationships and godly conduct. Ruth’s obedience and humility eventually led her into a blessed marriage with Boaz (Ruth 3:1–11). Through Naomi’s mentorship, Ruth learned how to walk wisely and with dignity—qualities that prepared her for divine favor.

    Mentorship in marriage helps couples handle challenges with grace and biblical understanding. Proverbs 11:14 says, “Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.” Having a mature, Spirit-filled couple or individual to offer guidance can prevent many avoidable mistakes.

    When couples learn from godly mentors and live according to Ephesians 5:21–33, they become living testimonies of Christ’s love for the Church. Mentoring nurtures stability, faith, and purpose—strengthening marriages and bringing glory, not reproach, to the name of the Lord.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and humility to learn .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to work in divine wisdom.

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SIGNS OF A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE ( Part 2)

 The anointing of God's favour is healing your broken heart and bringing you to a place of tender loving care . 

Good -Life Devotional: SIGNS OF A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE ( Part 2)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

1 Peter 3:8-9 NLT

[8] Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude. [9] Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing. " Rendering insults for insults is characteristic of a contentious spouse especially in public . This gives Satan the advantage over such persons , he afflicts them with sadness and depression. Here are more signs of a contentious spouse and how to overcome it.

6. DOMINATING SPIRIT

Always insisting on control.

Philippians 2:4 AMP

PRAYER: Lord, humble our hearts. Teach us to honor each other’s views and submit to Your will. 

7. UNFORGIVENESS AND BRINGING UP THE PAST

They keep records of wrongs.

 1 Corinthians 13:5 AMP

PRAYER: Father, give us forgiving hearts. Help us to release past offenses and move forward in love. 

8. RESISTANCE TO PEACE-MAKING

Rejecting reconciliation or apologies.

 Matthew 5:9 AMP

PRAYER: Lord, make me a peacemaker in my home. Let Your peace rule in our hearts. 

9. FAULT-FINDING

Always critical, rarely affirming.

Matthew 7:3 AMP

PRAYER: Lord, open our eyes to see the good in each other. Deliver us from a spirit of criticism. 

10. STIRRING DIVISION IN THE HOME

Creating tension among family members.

 Proverbs 29:22 AMP

PRAYER: God of peace, silence every spirit of strife in my family. Let harmony and love dwell richly among us. 

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and a tender heart towards one another . 

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome bitterness.

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SIGNS OF A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE ( Part 1)

 

The cycle of generational strife in your family is being broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.
Good -Life Devotional: SIGNS OF A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE ( Part 1)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Romans 8:6-7 "For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.

Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
When the Holy Spirit is allowed to guide out hearts we will enjoy his peace . The spouse who isn't guided by the Holy Spirit is motivated by Satan's agenda and cannot please God. Such persons are always sad and confused and are a source of pain to their spouses . Here are some signs of a contentious spouse and how to overcome them to avert disaster in a marriage.
1). CONSTANT QUARRELING
A contentious spouse always seeks conflict.
Proverbs 21:19 AMP
PRAYER: Lord, give me the grace to remain calm in the face of quarrels. Teach me to respond with wisdom and not with strife.
2). NAGGING AND COMPLAINING
They continually repeat complaints without peace.
Proverbs 25:24 AMP
PRAYER: Father, replace the spirit of nagging in my home with a spirit of contentment and gratitude and show me how to convert compliant into prayers of faith
3. EASILY PROVOKED TO ANGER
Quick-tempered, easily offended.
Proverbs 22:24 AMP
PRAYER: Lord, calm every storm of anger in my spouse and in me. Fill our hearts with patience and self-control.
4. DISRESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION
Words that belittle or destroy.. Quickly repent and apologise anytime you use disrespectful words against your spouse.
Proverbs 15:4 AMP
PRAYER: Lord, put a guard over our tongues. Let our words bring healing and not hurt.
5. STRIFE OVER FINANCES OR DECISIONS
Disagreements over household matters. Learn to make suggestions respectfully concerning financial matters . Don't compromise on your financial obligations to Jesus Christ through your location church ( Galatians 6;6, 1 Corinthians 16 :1-2) to continue to enjoy extraordinary help from God.
Proverbs 13:10 AMP
PRAYER: God of wisdom, unite us in financial and family decisions. Remove pride and give us agreement.
In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and commitment to be led by the Holy Spirit.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome generarional hatred.
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LIVING WITH A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE (Part 2)

 The anointing of God's favour is mending your broken heart and turning disappointments into joyful breakthroughs. 

Good -Life Devotional: LIVING WITH A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE  (Part 2)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

1 Corinthians 3:3 " For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?

  A carnal husband or wife is no different from a heathen and is characterised by contentiousness or strife .Such persons are tools in the hands of the enemy to destroy families . 

  The Bible teaches us how to overcome the contentious spirit . Here are more ways: 

4. GUARD YOUR TONGUE

 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” (Proverbs 18:21)

 Refusing to speak hurtful words disarms contention. Think of the implications of your words before you speak 

PRAYER: Father, set a guard over my lips, that I may speak life, not strife.

5. COMMIT TO FERVENT PRAYER LIKE HANNAH

: “Hannah was in great distress and prayed to the Lord and wept bitterly.” (1 Samuel 1:10)

 Hannah turned provocation into prayer, not retaliation.

PRAYER: Lord, teach me to turn my tears and pain into prayers, as Hannah did.

6. PURSUE PEACE DELIBERATELY

 “So then let us pursue with enthusiasm the things which make for peace and the building up of one another.” (Romans 14:19)

   Peace does not come by chance but by pursuit.

PRAYER: Prince of Peace, guide me to sow peace in my home, even in the face of contention.

7. BE SLOW TO ANGER

“Be slow to anger, for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” (James 1:19–20)

 Contention thrives when anger is quick; patience breaks the cycle.

PRAYER: Lord, slow my anger and quicken my patience, so I may reflect Your righteousness.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the courage to apologise whenever we are at fault. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome unforgiveness.

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LIVING WITH A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE

The love bond in your family shall continue to wax stronger because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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LIVING WITH A CONTENTIOUS SPOUSE

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   One of the effects of generational strife is a contentious spirit. In Jacob’s household, Rachel and Leah constantly competed for affection (Genesis 29–30), producing envy, rivalry, and tension. This strife sowed seeds of division in their family. In contrast, Hannah faced provocation from her rival Peninnah but overcame by seeking God in prayer, not through strife (1 Samuel 1:6–10).

Scripture warns us: “It is better to live in a desert land than with a contentious and vexing woman.” (Proverbs 21:19, AMP) also

“As charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire, so is a contentious man to kindle strife.” (Proverbs 26:21, AMP) it also says 

“But for those who are selfishly ambitious and self-seeking and disobedient to the truth... [there will be] wrath and indignation.” (Romans 2:8, AMP)

   Yet, God provides wisdom and grace to live peaceably and victoriously, even in a difficult marriage.

Here are some  Ways to Live with a Contentious Spouse

1. WALK IN THE SPIRIT, NOT IN THE FLESH

Scripture: “Walk habitually in the Spirit... then you will certainly not carry out the desire of the sinful nature.” (Galatians 5:16)

  Strife feeds on fleshly reactions. Spirit-led living helps us respond with patience.

PRAYER: Lord, help me to walk in Your Spirit daily, not in the flesh, that I may overcome strife with peace. Memorise Galatians 5:22 and recite it everyday.

2.)  PRACTICE GENTLE ANSWERS

The Scripture:says  “A soft and gentle and thoughtful answer turns away wrath, but harsh and painful words stir up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)

Gentleness defuses arguments before they escalate.

PRAYER: Father, put Your words in my mouth, that I may answer gently and turn away wrath.

3. COVER IN LOVE

The Scripture says: “Above all, have fervent and unfailing love... because love covers a multitude of sins.” (1 Peter 4:8)

   Love overlooks weaknesses instead of magnifying them.

PRAYER: Lord, fill me with love that covers offenses and heals wounds in my marriage.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and to be filled with the Holy Spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues for effective prayers .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to love the unlovable. 

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GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 3)

 You shall not labour in vain , your interest shall be well secured because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE  ( part 3) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

 James 3:17-18

[17]But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.

[18]And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.". The fruit of righteousness being the blessings of the lord upon a marriage can only be seen and enjoyed in a peaceful atmosphere. Living in peace is by choice and here are more principles on how to overcome the generarional cycle of strife in your family . 

8) BREAK NEGATIVE FAMILY PATTERNS THROUGH CHRIST – 2 Corinthians 5:17

PRAYER: By the authority of Jesus Christ, I break every inherited pattern of rivalry, jealousy, and division in my family. We declare that we are new creations in Christ, in Jesus’ name.

Make moves to reconcile with your inherited enemies . We are called to the ministry of reconciliation. 

9) GUARD YOUR HOME ATMOSPHERE WITH PEACE – Matthew 5:9

Prayer: Father, make our home a dwelling place of peace. Let Your Spirit rule our atmosphere so strife cannot enter, in Jesus’ name.

10 ) STAND FIRM IN GOD’S WORD AND RESIST THE ENEMY – James 4:7

Prayer: Lord, we submit our marriage to You. We resist the devil, and we declare that every plan of strife and division against us shall fail, in Jesus’ name.

Conclusion

Strife, if left unchecked, can travel through generations. But when a marriage is surrendered to Christ, fueled by the Holy Spirit, and guarded by prayer, the cycle of conflict is broken, and a new legacy of peace begins.

 In our prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and boldness to take steps or reconciliation. 

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him and receive the Holy Spirit and power for reconciliation.

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GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 2)

 

The generarional hindrance  to your family's prosperity is hereby broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.
Good-Life Devotional: GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE  ( part 2)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
1 Thessalonians 2:8 'So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us."
  The scripture teaches that we should be affectionate towards each other and long for eachother  for our collective prosperity.
Generational strife born out of inherited enemies and demonic manipulations through the activities of soothsayers and false preachers hinder love in families.  The following are more ways to promote family love :
4) FORGIVE AND RELEASE OFFENSES QUICKLY – Colossians 3:13
PRAYER: Father, give us the grace to forgive one another freely. May no root of bitterness grow in our hearts or our marriage, in Jesus’ name.
5) SPEAK LIFE, NOT STRIFE – Proverbs 18:21
PRAYER: Lord, sanctify our tongues. Let our words build each other up and heal our home, never tear it down, in Jesus’ name.
6) SUBMIT TO ONE ANOTHER IN LOVE – Ephesians 5:21
PRAYER: Father, clothe us with humility. Help us to honor and submit to one another in love, breaking every foothold of pride, in Jesus’ name.
7 ) PRAY TOGETHER AS A COUPLE – Matthew 18:19
PRAYER: Lord, unite our hearts in prayer. As we agree together before You, let strife lose its power and let Your peace reign in our marriage, in Jesus’ name.
In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the spirit of reconciliation in our families .
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to break evil family patterns.
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GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 1)

 The cycle of generational strife is broken off your family because of the anointing of God's favour upon you. 

Good- Life Devotional: GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE  ( part 1) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

:1 Kings 2:8-9 And, behold, thou hast with thee Shimei the son of Gera, a Benjamite of Bahurim, which cursed me with a grievous curse in the day when I went to Mahanaim: but he came down to meet me at Jordan, and I sware to him by the LORD, saying, I will not put thee to death with the sword.

[9]Now therefore hold him not guiltless: for thou art a wise man, and knowest what thou oughtest to do unto him; but his hoar head bring thou down to the grave with blood.' 

Like king Solomon some persons have inherited their parents enemies and continued in the cycle of generational strife with profound effect on their marriages . 

 The same circumstance plays out amongst descendants of Ishmael as witnessed in the middle east . A brief timeline based on the scriptures : 

In Genesis 16:11–12 – The prophecy about Ishmael’s turbulent destiny.

Genesis 17:20 – God’s blessing upon Ishmael, proving he was not cursed.

In Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control and peace is promised to those who receive Jesus Christ as lord and saviour .

   The conflict between Sarah and Hagar sowed seeds of strife that outlived them and affected their descendants—Isaac and Ishmael. This shows us how family strife, if unchecked, can flow into generations. Many families today are still marked by quarrels, bitterness, rivalries, and resistance, which often affect marriages. But through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, couples can break free and guard their marriages against these destructive cycles.

 Here are some ways to Overcome the Generational Spirit of Strife in Families (with Prayers)

1) ACKNOWLEDGE AND RENOUNCE GENERATIONAL STRIFE – 1 John 1:9

Prayer: Father, I acknowledge the presence of strife in my family line. By the blood of Jesus, I renounce every generational spirit of conflict and division in my marriage, in Jesus’ name.

2) RECEIVE THE BAPTISM AND POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT – Acts 1:8

PRAYER: Lord, baptize me and my spouse afresh with the Holy Spirit and fire. Empower us to walk in Your strength, not in the patterns of our ancestors, in Jesus’ name.

3) WALK IN THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT – Galatians 5:22–23

Prayer: Holy Spirit, produce in us love, joy, peace, patience, and self-control. Let our marriage reflect Your nature, not strife, in Jesus’ name.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and freedom from evil family patterns .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome evil family patterns .

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MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 2 )

 

The more the opposition against you the more breakthroughs you shall have because of the anointing of God's favour upon.
Good -Life Devotional: MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 2 )

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Psalms 37:19 "They shall not be ashamed in the evil time: and in the days of famine they shall be satisfied."
  The scripture promises that God's people will be catered for in adverse conditions . Faith demands we act on God's principles for financial intelligence. Here are more ways a couple can strengthen their marriage and build their finances together :
6) BUILDING AN EMERGENCY FUND
Proverbs 6:6-8 praises the ant for storing food in summer. Couples must prepare for the unexpected—medical needs, job loss, or repairs—through emergency savings.
PRAYER: Father, give us discipline to save consistently and foresight to prepare for the future without fear or anxiety.
7) LONG-TERM PLANNING
Joseph stored grain for seven years against famine (Genesis 41:34–36). In the same way, couples should plan for retirement, children’s future, and legacy.
PRAYER: Lord, guide us with wisdom like Joseph, that we may prepare for the future and leave a godly legacy for our children.
8) MANAGING DEBT
Romans 13:8 warns, “Owe no man anything, but to love one another.” Couples must avoid unnecessary debt and work together to pay existing obligations.
PRAYER: Father, deliver us from the burden of debt. Teach us contentment, and provide the resources we need to clear every financial obligation.
9) INVESTING AND WEALTH CREATION
Proverbs 13:11 says, “Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.” Investments—land, business, or skills—help couples create lasting wealth.
PRAYER: Lord, open doors of opportunity for wise investments. Bless the work of our hands, and help us build wealth that glorifies You.
10) REVIEWING AND ADJUSTING
Proverbs 27:23–24 counsels, “Be diligent to know the state of your flocks.” Couples should regularly review budgets, savings, and investments, adjusting as life changes.
PRAYER: Father, keep us diligent and faithful in monitoring our finances. Help us adjust wisely and remain good stewards of all You have entrusted to us.
  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom for excellence in finance management
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to get wealth.
“Heavenly Father, we dedicate our finances and marriage to You. Teach us to be united, wise, and disciplined in money matters. Let our financial management bring peace, abundance, and glory to Your name. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.”
  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and openness to learn financial intelligence.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to get wealth .
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MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 1

 Extraordinary financial favour shall locate you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: 

MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 1 ) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

    Money matters are among the leading causes of conflict in marriage, yet God’s Word provides wisdom to guide couples in financial stewardship. When husbands and wives walk in unity concerning money, they not only secure their future but also glorify God. Here are some principles for effective financial management in a marriage. 

1) SHARED FINANCIAL GOALS

Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together except they be agreed?” Couples must set common financial goals—whether saving for a home, educating children, or giving to the kingdom. Unity in vision strengthens marriage.

Prayer: Lord, unite our hearts in vision and purpose. Help us to walk together in agreement concerning our financial goals.

2) JOINT BUDGETING

Luke 14:28 teaches us to count the cost before building. A joint budget helps couples plan for income and expenses, avoiding waste. It also builds accountability and trust.

Prayer: Father, grant us wisdom to plan wisely, discipline to keep to our budget, and grace to honor You with our spending.

3 ) FINANCIAL COMMUNICATION

Proverbs 15:22 reminds us that “Without counsel purposes are disappointed, but in the multitude of counselors they are established.” Honest conversations about money prevent hidden debts, secret spending, or misunderstandings.

Prayer: Lord, teach us to communicate openly, truthfully, and gently about money, removing every spirit of secrecy or mistrust.

4) DIVISION OF RESPONSIBILITIES

Ecclesiastes 4:9 says, “Two are better than one.” Couples may divide responsibilities according to strengths—one handling bills, another savings—while remaining transparent.

Prayer: Father, show us how to share financial responsibilities wisely, respecting each other’s strengths and working together in unity.

5) SUPPORTING EACH OTHER’S GOALS

Philippians 2:4 encourages us to look out for the interests of others. A husband may support his wife’s desire to learn a trade, while she backs his dream of business growth. Such mutual support fosters love and progress.

Prayer: Lord, help us to celebrate and support each other’s financial dreams, making sacrifices where needed, and finding joy in one another’s success.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom against financial mismanagement. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to get wealth. 

“Heavenly Father, we dedicate our finances and marriage to You. Teach us to be united, wise, and disciplined in money matters. Let our financial management bring peace, abundance, and glory to Your name. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.”

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SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 2)

 Your tears of sorrow shall be turned into tears of joy because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional; 

 SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 2) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

Ephesians 5:31 'For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.". The scripture teaches that couples are not to compete with each other but complement each other in a symbiotic relationship. Here are more scriptural ways that a marriage can become more prosperous and fruitful 

6. FORGIVENESS AND PEACEMAKING – “Do not let the sun go down on your wrath.” (Ephesians 4:26). Swift forgiveness restores peace and intimacy.

Prayer: Father, help us to forgive quickly and never allow anger to linger between us.

7. CULTIVATING CLOSENESS AND AFFECTION – “Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her.” (1 Corinthians 7:3). Love must be nurtured daily. Courtship never ends . Always recount the early days of your meeting with each other. 

Prayer: Lord, deepen our closeness, rekindle passion, and keep our love fresh.

8. PARTNERSHIP AND MUTUAL SUPPORT – “Two are better than one… if one falls, the other lifts him up.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10). Marriage means standing together in strength and weakness.

Prayer: Father, help us carry each other’s burdens and celebrate each other’s victories.

9. JOY, HUMOUR, AND LIGHTHEARTEDNESS – “A merry heart does good, like medicine.” (Proverbs 17:22). Laughter heals and strengthens bonds.

Prayer: Lord, fill our marriage with joy, humour, and a spirit of gladness.

10. SPEAKING LIFE THROUGH WORDS – “Let your speech always be with grace.” (Colossians 4:6). Loving communication builds trust and connection.

Prayer: Father, sanctify our tongues so our words may bring healing, encouragement, and unity.

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and pursue what brings us together and stay away from what separates us .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to destroy generational hatred in families. 

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SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 1)

 Your family shall not fall apart but wax strong in love and harmony because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional; 

 SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 1) 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

1 Corinthians 1:10 'Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.' This scripture describes the spirituality in a marriage which is the bedrock of a family. Here are some factors needed for a happy marriage . 

1. SPIRITUAL ALIGNMENT AND SHARED VISION – “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Couples must walk in agreement with God’s will and share a common life direction especially your financial obligations to the Jesus Christ ( Galatians 6:6, 2cornthians 8:1-5, 1Corintians 16;1-2) 

Prayer: Lord, unite our hearts under Your vision so we may walk together in purpose and harmony.

2. A GRATEFUL SPIRIT AND WORDS OF AFFIRMATION – “In everything give thanks.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Speaking appreciation daily strengthens love.

Prayer: Father, help us to express gratitude and affirm one another, so our marriage remains joyful.

3. FAITHFUL COMMITMENT ROOTED IN GOD – “The heart of her husband safely trusts her.” (Proverbs 31:11). Loyalty flows from trust built on God’s Word.

Prayer: Lord, make us faithful to each other and deepen our trust as we put our confidence in You.

4. WILLINGNESS TO ADJUST IN CHANGING SEASONS – “I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content.” (Philippians 4:11). Marriage thrives when spouses adapt with grace.

Prayer: Father, grant us humility and wisdom to adjust to life’s changes without strife.

5. WISDOM IN HANDLING EMOTIONS – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.” (James 1:19). Emotional maturity prevents wounds and cultivates peace.

Prayer: Lord, teach us to manage our emotions and respond to each other with gentleness.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and love for one another.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to heal broken homes and communities.

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PRAYING WIFE (PART 3)

 You shall continue to make extraordinary progress in the face of adversity because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: PRAYING WIFE  (PART 3)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

2 Timothy 1:5 "When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also."

A wife's prayer of faith is an integral part in the formative process of a child's faith and relationship with God. Here are more praying points of a praying wife : 

 6)  CHILDREN’S DESTINY

Scripture: “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb.” (Jeremiah 1:5)

 Hannah’s prayer raised Samuel, who changed a nation. Your intercession shapes your children’s destiny.

PRAYER: Father, let my children walk in Your calling and fulfill their purpose.

7 )  HOUSEHOLD SALVATION

Scripture: “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.” (Acts 16:31)

  Your prayer can pull unsaved loved ones into God’s Kingdom.

PRAYER: Lord, bring salvation to every member of my family.

 8 )  PEACE IN THE HOME

Scripture: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

  A praying wife calms storms in her home. Peace is the fruit of prayer.

PRAYER: Lord, let Your peace reign in my home. Remove strife and replace it with unity.

 9 ) DIVINE WISDOM

Scripture: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God… and it will be given.” (James 1:5)

 Abigail, a wise woman’s prayers and decisions can save her household from disaster.

PRAYER: Lord, grant me wisdom to intercede and act rightly in every situation.

10) ENDURANCE IN PRAYER

Scripture: “Men ought always to pray and not lose heart.” (Luke 18:1)

Many blessings are birthed through persistence. Do not faint; keep praying.

PRAYER: Lord, strengthen me to persevere in prayer until every promise is fulfilled.

 The prayer of the praying wife is very powerful and is indispensable in nation building. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for effective prayers .

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PRAYING WOMAN (PART 2)

 That stubborn situation shall succumb to the anointing of God's favour upon you. 

Good -Life Devotional: 

PRAYING WOMAN (PART 2)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

Luke 11:2 "And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth."  Prayer is seeking God's intervention in human affairs . It is about enforcement of divine order in a chaotic world . A praying wife seeks for order in the following areas : 

PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING WOMAN 

 1  PRESERVATION OF DESTINY

Scripture: “The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” (Psalm 121:8)

Just as Zipporah’s act preserved Moses’ destiny, God can use your prayers to shield your husband and household from unseen dangers.

Prayer: Lord, preserve my husband and family from every form of destruction. Keep our destiny secure in You.

2) FRUITFULNESS

Scripture: “He gives the childless woman a family, making her a happy mother.” (Psalm 113:9)

   Hannah’s prayers turned barrenness into joy. Your prayers can turn every “closed door” in your family into open testimonies.

Prayer: Father, remove every barrenness—spiritual, financial, or emotional—from my life and home.

3 ) SPIRITUAL COVERING

Scripture: “He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you will find refuge.” (Psalm 91:4)

A wife’s intercession invites God’s covering over her home. Your prayer is a shield against attacks.

Prayer: Lord, cover my household with Your wings of protection.

4)  GENTLE SPIRIT

Scripture: “A gentle tongue is a tree of life.” (Proverbs 15:4)

 A praying wife is not loud in strife but strong in prayer. Gentleness is power under control.

Prayer: Lord, fill me with a gentle, peace-carrying spirit that blesses my home.

 5 ) HUSBAND’S DESTINY

Scripture: “Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9)

 Behind every thriving man is often a praying wife. Your prayers can lift your husband in his assignment.

Prayer: Lord, strengthen my husband to fulfill his God-given purpose.

These prayers should be made in faith with a sense of assurance from the lord that they will be answered. 

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome bitterness and unforgiveness.

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THE PRAYING WIFE (1)

 Those who mocked you shall be overwhelmed  by your breakthroughs because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional; 

THE PRAYING WIFE (1)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

  A praying wife is wise , peaceful and is a gift to her husband, her home, and the generations to come. In Scripture, we see how God honors the intercession of women who stand in the gap.

   When Moses’ life was in danger because he had neglected God’s covenant command, his wife Zipporah quickly interceded through decisive action (Exodus 4:24–26). Though her role was not glamorous, her obedience preserved Moses’ life and destiny. In her, we see the picture of a wife whose sensitivity to God saved her household from judgment.

   Hannah, too, shows us the power of a praying woman (1 Samuel 1:9–20). Though barren and provoked, she did not retaliate in anger or despair. Instead, she poured out her soul before the Lord. Her prayer not only opened her womb but also birthed Samuel, a prophet who changed Israel’s history. Hannah reminds us that a wife’s prayer can unlock divine purposes far beyond her personal struggles.

    Scripture calls wives to be “women of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight” (1 Peter 3:4 AMP). This quiet strength is expressed most powerfully in prayer. A praying wife covers her husband in times of weakness, intercedes for her children’s destiny, and preserves her household against the attacks of the enemy.

   Dear sister, God has positioned you as a watchwoman over your home. Like Zipporah and Hannah, your prayers can preserve, heal, and birth God’s purposes.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for deliverance prayers. Lord, teach me to be a faithful praying wife, standing in the gap for my family. Let my prayers preserve life, open doors, and release Your will in my home, in Jesus’ name.

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PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 5)

 What was meant for your destruction shall result in your promotion because of the anointing of God's favour upon you .

Good-life Devotional: PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND  (part 5)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

Acts 2:42-43 "And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers. And fear came upon every soul: and many wonders and signs were done by the apostles."

Prayer is the gateway to supernatural. A praying husband opens the doors for the miraculous in his family. Here are more prayer points of a praying husband. 

17. PROTECTION FROM TEMPTATION

Lord Jesus, You taught us to pray, “Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.” I pray that You protect me and my family from sin and ungodly influences. Strengthen me to resist temptation and remain steadfast in faith. Guard my wife and children from snares, peer pressure, and worldly corruption. Help us to walk in the Spirit and not fulfill the desires of the flesh. Cover us with Your grace, keeping our hearts pure and devoted to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.   Matthew 6:13 – “And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.”

18. CHURCH INVOLVEMENT

Father, make me and my family faithful in serving You through the local church. Teach us to use our gifts, time, and resources to build Your kingdom. Let our commitment to fellowship be strong, and help us to encourage others by our example. Keep us from spiritual laziness or neglect of Your house. Just as Samuel heard Your voice while serving in the temple, may my family encounter You as we serve faithfully. Let our service bring You glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 Hebrews 10:25 – “Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

19. GENERATIONAL BLESSINGS

Lord, I pray that my life of prayer and obedience will plant seeds of righteousness for generations to come. May my children and grandchildren inherit blessings because of the covenant I walk in with You. Break every generational curse of sin, poverty, or failure, and establish a new lineage of godliness. Let my descendants rise as mighty men and women of faith, impacting their world for Christ. May our family name be associated with integrity, faith, and righteousness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.  Psalm 112:2 – “Their children will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed.”

20. ENDURANCE IN FAITH

Heavenly Father, strengthen me to be a man of prayer who endures in faith. Help me never to grow weary or give up in seeking You. Teach me to persist in prayer, even when answers seem delayed. Let me model perseverance for my wife and children, so they also learn to stand strong in faith. May my prayers shape the destiny of my family and leave a legacy of intercession. Keep me steadfast until I see You face to face. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Luke 18:1 – “Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.”

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to stand against oppression.

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PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 4)

 

The anointing of God's favour upon you will give you wisdom that will  put you ahead of the competition .
Good-life Devotional: PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND  (part 4)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Matthew 7:7 'Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: "
In Christ we have guarantee to pur prayers of faith being answered . Prayer is the solution to crisis in the family and husband's are expected as heads of the family to set the standards for prayers .Here are more prayer points  for a praying husband.
13. SPIRITUAL SENSITIVITY
Father, open my ears to hear Your voice clearly. Remove every distraction, fear, and doubt that hinders me from discerning Your will. As You spoke to Samuel, speak also to me, and help me to recognize Your leading. Teach me to lead my family with spiritual sensitivity, guiding them according to Your Word and Spirit. Let my wife and children learn to hear from You through my example. May our household be marked by obedience to Your voice. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
1 Samuel 3:10 – “The LORD came and stood there, calling as at the other times, ‘Samuel! Samuel!’ Then Samuel said, ‘Speak, for your servant is listening.’”
14. FORGIVENESS
Lord, give me a heart that forgives quickly and fully. Remove bitterness, anger, and resentment from me. Help me to extend grace to my wife and children just as Christ has forgiven me. Teach me to humble myself and ask for forgiveness when I am wrong. Let our home be filled with mercy and compassion instead of strife. Restore joy and peace where wounds have been caused. May forgiveness keep our marriage and family strong, reflecting the love of Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Colossians 3:13 – “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
15. HEALING
Father, I ask for healing in every area of my family life—physical, emotional, and spiritual. Heal past hurts, disappointments, and misunderstandings in my marriage. Restore areas where trust or intimacy has been broken. Touch my wife and children with Your power and make us whole. Let Your peace and love flow in our hearts, replacing pain with joy. Help us to build stronger relationships rooted in grace. May our home become a place of restoration for all who enter. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
16. FRUITFULNESS
Heavenly Father, thank You for blessing marriage and commanding fruitfulness. I pray that my home will be fruitful in love, joy, peace, and purpose. Let our union produce godly children and spiritual impact in the world. Bless the works of our hands so that we prosper and have abundance to serve You and others. Remove every form of barrenness—whether physical, spiritual, or emotional. May our family grow in righteousness, becoming a light in our generation. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Genesis 1:28 – “God blessed them and said to them, ‘Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.’”
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to work miracles . Amen
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PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 3)

 

Your family shall not suffer lack regardless of the circumstances because of the anointing of God's favour upon you .
Good -Life Devotional: PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND  (part 3)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Matthew 7:8 "For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. '
In Christ we are guaranteed answer to prayers as long as they align with his will for the church . Here are more prayer points for a praying husband for a sustainable marriage and family.

9.) PROVISION
Jehovah Jireh, You are the source of all good things. I ask that You prosper the work of our hands and grant us diligence, wisdom, and favor. Open doors of opportunity, and make us  faithful stewards of the resources You entrust to us. Help me to provide for my household with integrity and consistency. Deliver us from financial stress, lack, or wastefulness. Let our family walk in contentment, generosity, and gratitude. Make me a channel of blessing, not only to my family but also to others in need. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
1 Timothy 5:8 – “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
10. UNITY
Lord, I ask for peace and unity in my home. Bind my heart with my wife’s in love, and let our children walk together in harmony. Remove strife, pride, and disunity from our household. Give us wisdom to handle disagreements with humility and respect. Teach us to listen, forgive, and encourage one another. Let our family be united in purpose, serving You faithfully. May our home be a place of joy, healing, and Your presence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Psalm 133:1 – “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!”
11. CHILDREN’S SALVATION
Heavenly Father, I lift up my children before You. Let them know You from an early age and walk in Your truth. Write Your Word on their hearts and guide them in Your paths. Protect them from ungodly influences and the snares of the enemy. Give me the wisdom to train them in love, discipline, and godliness. May their lives bring glory to Your name. Lord, let them experience the joy of salvation and never depart from it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Isaiah 54:13 – “All your children shall be taught by the LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children.”
12. GUIDANCE
Lord, You promised that if we acknowledge You in all our ways, You will direct our paths. I submit my decisions, plans, and responsibilities to You. Guide me in my role as a husband and father. Help me to make wise financial, spiritual, and relational choices that align with Your will. Deliver me from confusion and impatience. Let Your Spirit give me clarity and discernment, so that every step I take benefits my family and honors You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Proverbs 3:5–6 – “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.”
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to promote peace .
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PRAYERS POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND

 You shall not labour in vain because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: PRAYERS POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND 

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

 Matthew 26:41

"Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. '

A marriage is as strong as the prayer of faith backing it up. Here are some prayer models for a praying husband.

1. THANKSGIVING

Heavenly Father, I thank You for the precious gift of my wife and children. Your Word says that children are a heritage from You and a reward (Psalm 127:3). I bless You for entrusting me with the responsibility of leading, protecting, and nurturing them. Forgive me for the times I have taken them for granted. Help me always to honor You with gratitude, recognizing that every good and perfect gift comes from You. Let thanksgiving flow continually from my lips and keep my home filled with Your presence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 Psalm 127:3 – “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.”

2. HOLINESS

Lord, You desire men everywhere to lift holy hands in prayer without anger or disputing (1 Timothy 2:8). Cleanse me from every hidden sin, bitterness, and pride. Purify my thoughts, my speech, and my actions. Let holiness be the foundation of my leadership at home and my worship in Your presence. May my life inspire my wife and children to pursue righteousness. Help me to walk in integrity and faithfulness so that my prayers are not hindered. Keep me blameless until the coming of Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

1 Timothy 2:8 – “Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing.”

3. INTIMACY WITH GOD

Father, draw me closer to You every day in prayer and in the study of Your Word. Guard my heart from distractions and lukewarmness. Teach me to abide in You so that my life becomes fruitful and pleasing to You. May my intimacy with You overflow into my marriage, shaping me into a godly husband and father. Let my children see in me an example of devotion and reverence to God. I long to walk with You as Enoch did, faithfully and consistently. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 James 4:8 – “Come near to God and he will come near to you.”

4. HEADSHIP

Lord, You have called me to lead my home as Christ leads the church (Ephesians 5:23). Grant me wisdom, humility, and discernment to make godly decisions. Help me to lead not with pride or harshness but with sacrificial love and gentleness. Let my leadership be guided by prayer and Your Word. May I inspire my wife and children to follow You wholeheartedly. Remove confusion and strife from our home, and establish peace and order under Your authority. Make me a servant-leader who glorifies Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 Ephesians 5:23 – “For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.”

PRAYER : Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and zeal for prayer . 

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THE PRAYING HUSBAND

 You shall continue to make great progress in the face of adversity because of the anointing of God's favour upon you .

Good -Life Devotional:

THE PRAYING HUSBAND

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

   The strength of every family is tied to the prayers of its spiritual head. Scripture declares in 1 Timothy 2:8: “I want the men in every place to pray, lifting up holy hands, without anger or disputing.” A praying husband is not only the priest of his home but also the first line of defense against the wrath of God that comes upon families because of sin.

   Jesus Himself warned, “Pray so that you will not fall into temptation” (Luke 22:40). A father’s intercession preserves his wife and children from the snares of the enemy. When Jesus prayed for Peter’s faith not to fail, though Peter denied Him thrice, he was restored and later strengthened others (Luke 22:32). In the same way, a husband’s prayer covers his family in seasons of weakness.

   Abraham modeled prayer and communion with God before Isaac, who in turn taught Jacob. A child’s greatest inheritance is not money but the ability to recognize God’s voice. Samuel learned to hear from God through the guidance of Eli (1 Samuel 3). Likewise, when fathers pray and walk with God, they pass down spiritual sensitivity to their children.

    We need more praying fathers to keep the church strong. It begins with cultivating a healthy habit of studying God’s Word, living in holiness, and serving faithfully in the local church. Samuel heard God while ministering in the temple with Eli. Today, families will hear God more clearly when husbands rise as men of prayer.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and zeal to pray in the spirit .

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to pray in the Spirit. 

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EFFECTIVE WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

 

Doors are being opened for you in high places because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: MORE EFFECTIVE WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

Proverbs 22:11 'He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the king shall be his friend. 

Good and effective communication skills in relationships opens doors in high places . Here are more was a husband and wife can restart healthy communication after a break up. 

5. REAFFIRM COMMITMENT

One major fear after a break is uncertainty about the future. Reassure your spouse of your commitment to the covenant. Hosea said to Gomer, “You must dwell with me many days.” (Hosea 3:3) This showed he wasn’t giving up.

PRACTICAL STEP: Say things like, “I’m committed to working this out because our marriage is worth it.” These words bring security.

6. SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES FOR HEALING

Rebuilding trust requires boundaries. This may include transparency with phones, limiting toxic friendships, or scheduling time together. Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together except they agree?” Boundaries create agreement and safety.

Example: After infidelity, a couple agreed to share passwords and avoid private communication with the opposite sex. These measures restored trust over time.

7. LISTEN ACTIVELY

James 1:19 instructs, “Be quick to listen, slow to speak.” Many conflicts persist because spouses listen to reply, not to understand. Put away your phone, maintain eye contact, and reflect back what you hear.

Example: When Amaka returned home, her husband listened without interrupting for 30 minutes. That single act melted her defenses and opened her heart to reconciliation.

8. USE EDIFYING WORDS DAILY

Proverbs 16:24 says, “Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” Compliment each other often. Say thank you for small acts. Speak life into your spouse’s dreams.

Example: After years of harsh words, one husband started leaving notes saying, “I appreciate you.” Within months, their home environment changed dramatically.

9. SEEK WISE COUNSEL IF NECESSARY

Sometimes, you need help. Pride often stops couples from getting counseling, but Proverbs 11:14 says, “In the multitude of counselors there is safety.” A godly counselor can offer perspective and accountability.

Example: A Christian couple struggling to reconnect after separation attended marriage counseling at their church. With guidance and prayer, they rebuilt their communication and trust.

10. REBUILD INTIMACY GRADUALLY

Emotional and spiritual intimacy must precede physical intimacy. Hosea didn’t rush into physical union with Gomer; he focused on restoring her heart first (Hosea 3:3). Take time to talk, pray, and laugh together before resuming full intimacy.

Example: A couple agreed to have monthly date nights with no arguments—just connection and fun. This gradually restored affection and desire.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Marriage reflects Christ’s relationship with the Church. If Christ reconciled us while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8), then we, too, can extend grace. Reconciliation glorifies God and strengthens families.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Communication is the lifeline of marriage. After a break, starting again requires humility, forgiveness, and intentional effort. You are not alone—God is the ultimate restorer. Remember His promise in Joel 2:25: “I will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten.”

PRAYER FOR RECONCILIATION 

Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to heal the broken hearted 

Heavenly Father, thank You for being the God of restoration. Heal our hearts from hurt, remove pride, and help us to speak with love and grace. Teach us to forgive as You forgave us. May our home be filled with peace and understanding. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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