michael benson ajayi: September 2025

Saturday, September 27, 2025

GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 2)

The generarional hindrance to your family's prosperity is hereby broken because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.
Good-Life Devotional: GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 2)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
1 Thessalonians 2:8 'So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us."
The scripture teaches that we should be affectionate towards each other and long for eachother for our collective prosperity.
Generational strife born out of inherited enemies and demonic manipulations through the activities of soothsayers and false preachers hinder love in families. The following are more ways to promote family love :
4) FORGIVE AND RELEASE OFFENSES QUICKLY – Colossians 3:13
PRAYER: Father, give us the grace to forgive one another freely. May no root of bitterness grow in our hearts or our marriage, in Jesus’ name.
5) SPEAK LIFE, NOT STRIFE – Proverbs 18:21
PRAYER: Lord, sanctify our tongues. Let our words build each other up and heal our home, never tear it down, in Jesus’ name.
6) SUBMIT TO ONE ANOTHER IN LOVE – Ephesians 5:21
PRAYER: Father, clothe us with humility. Help us to honor and submit to one another in love, breaking every foothold of pride, in Jesus’ name.
7 ) PRAY TOGETHER AS A COUPLE – Matthew 18:19
PRAYER: Lord, unite our hearts in prayer. As we agree together before You, let strife lose its power and let Your peace reign in our marriage, in Jesus’ name.
In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the spirit of reconciliation in our families .
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to break evil family patterns.
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GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 1)

The cycle of generational strife is broken off your family because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good- Life Devotional: GUARD YOUR MARRIAGE AGAINST GENERATIONAL STRIFE ( part 1)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

:1 Kings 2:8-9 And, behold, thou hast with thee Shimei the son of Gera, a Benjamite of Bahurim, which cursed me with a grievous curse in the day when I went to Mahanaim: but he came down to meet me at Jordan, and I sware to him by the LORD, saying, I will not put thee to death with the sword.

[9]Now therefore hold him not guiltless: for thou art a wise man, and knowest what thou oughtest to do unto him; but his hoar head bring thou down to the grave with blood.'

Like king Solomon some persons have inherited their parents enemies and continued in the cycle of generational strife with profound effect on their marriages .

The same circumstance plays out amongst descendants of Ishmael as witnessed in the middle east . A brief timeline based on the scriptures :

In Genesis 16:11–12 – The prophecy about Ishmael’s turbulent destiny.

Genesis 17:20 – God’s blessing upon Ishmael, proving he was not cursed.

In Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control and peace is promised to those who receive Jesus Christ as lord and saviour .

The conflict between Sarah and Hagar sowed seeds of strife that outlived them and affected their descendants—Isaac and Ishmael. This shows us how family strife, if unchecked, can flow into generations. Many families today are still marked by quarrels, bitterness, rivalries, and resistance, which often affect marriages. But through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, couples can break free and guard their marriages against these destructive cycles.

Here are some ways to Overcome the Generational Spirit of Strife in Families (with Prayers)

1) ACKNOWLEDGE AND RENOUNCE GENERATIONAL STRIFE – 1 John 1:9

Prayer: Father, I acknowledge the presence of strife in my family line. By the blood of Jesus, I renounce every generational spirit of conflict and division in my marriage, in Jesus’ name.

2) RECEIVE THE BAPTISM AND POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT – Acts 1:8

PRAYER: Lord, baptize me and my spouse afresh with the Holy Spirit and fire. Empower us to walk in Your strength, not in the patterns of our ancestors, in Jesus’ name.

3) WALK IN THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT – Galatians 5:22–23

Prayer: Holy Spirit, produce in us love, joy, peace, patience, and self-control. Let our marriage reflect Your nature, not strife, in Jesus’ name.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and freedom from evil family patterns .

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Friday, September 26, 2025

MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 2 )

The more the opposition against you the more breakthroughs you shall have because of the anointing of God's favour upon.
Good -Life Devotional: MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 2 )

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Psalms 37:19 "They shall not be ashamed in the evil time: and in the days of famine they shall be satisfied."
The scripture promises that God's people will be catered for in adverse conditions . Faith demands we act on God's principles for financial intelligence. Here are more ways a couple can strengthen their marriage and build their finances together :
6) BUILDING AN EMERGENCY FUND
Proverbs 6:6-8 praises the ant for storing food in summer. Couples must prepare for the unexpected—medical needs, job loss, or repairs—through emergency savings.
PRAYER: Father, give us discipline to save consistently and foresight to prepare for the future without fear or anxiety.
7) LONG-TERM PLANNING
Joseph stored grain for seven years against famine (Genesis 41:34–36). In the same way, couples should plan for retirement, children’s future, and legacy.
PRAYER: Lord, guide us with wisdom like Joseph, that we may prepare for the future and leave a godly legacy for our children.
8) MANAGING DEBT
Romans 13:8 warns, “Owe no man anything, but to love one another.” Couples must avoid unnecessary debt and work together to pay existing obligations.
PRAYER: Father, deliver us from the burden of debt. Teach us contentment, and provide the resources we need to clear every financial obligation.
9) INVESTING AND WEALTH CREATION
Proverbs 13:11 says, “Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.” Investments—land, business, or skills—help couples create lasting wealth.
PRAYER: Lord, open doors of opportunity for wise investments. Bless the work of our hands, and help us build wealth that glorifies You.
10) REVIEWING AND ADJUSTING
Proverbs 27:23–24 counsels, “Be diligent to know the state of your flocks.” Couples should regularly review budgets, savings, and investments, adjusting as life changes.
PRAYER: Father, keep us diligent and faithful in monitoring our finances. Help us adjust wisely and remain good stewards of all You have entrusted to us.
In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom for excellence in finance management
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to get wealth.
“Heavenly Father, we dedicate our finances and marriage to You. Teach us to be united, wise, and disciplined in money matters. Let our financial management bring peace, abundance, and glory to Your name. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.”
In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and openness to learn financial intelligence.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to get wealth .
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Thursday, September 25, 2025

MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 1

Extraordinary financial favour shall locate you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:

MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT: A BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE (WITH PRAYERS Part 1 )

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Money matters are among the leading causes of conflict in marriage, yet God’s Word provides wisdom to guide couples in financial stewardship. When husbands and wives walk in unity concerning money, they not only secure their future but also glorify God. Here are some principles for effective financial management in a marriage.

1) SHARED FINANCIAL GOALS

Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together except they be agreed?” Couples must set common financial goals—whether saving for a home, educating children, or giving to the kingdom. Unity in vision strengthens marriage.

Prayer: Lord, unite our hearts in vision and purpose. Help us to walk together in agreement concerning our financial goals.

2) JOINT BUDGETING

Luke 14:28 teaches us to count the cost before building. A joint budget helps couples plan for income and expenses, avoiding waste. It also builds accountability and trust.

Prayer: Father, grant us wisdom to plan wisely, discipline to keep to our budget, and grace to honor You with our spending.

3 ) FINANCIAL COMMUNICATION

Proverbs 15:22 reminds us that “Without counsel purposes are disappointed, but in the multitude of counselors they are established.” Honest conversations about money prevent hidden debts, secret spending, or misunderstandings.

Prayer: Lord, teach us to communicate openly, truthfully, and gently about money, removing every spirit of secrecy or mistrust.

4) DIVISION OF RESPONSIBILITIES

Ecclesiastes 4:9 says, “Two are better than one.” Couples may divide responsibilities according to strengths—one handling bills, another savings—while remaining transparent.

Prayer: Father, show us how to share financial responsibilities wisely, respecting each other’s strengths and working together in unity.

5) SUPPORTING EACH OTHER’S GOALS

Philippians 2:4 encourages us to look out for the interests of others. A husband may support his wife’s desire to learn a trade, while she backs his dream of business growth. Such mutual support fosters love and progress.

Prayer: Lord, help us to celebrate and support each other’s financial dreams, making sacrifices where needed, and finding joy in one another’s success.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom against financial mismanagement.

“Heavenly Father, we dedicate our finances and marriage to You. Teach us to be united, wise, and disciplined in money matters. Let our financial management bring peace, abundance, and glory to Your name. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.”

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Wednesday, September 24, 2025

SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 2)

Your tears of sorrow shall be turned into tears of joy because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional;

SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 2)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Ephesians 5:31 'For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.". The scripture teaches that couples are not to compete with each other but complement each other in a symbiotic relationship. Here are more scriptural ways that a marriage can become more prosperous and fruitful

6. FORGIVENESS AND PEACEMAKING – “Do not let the sun go down on your wrath.” (Ephesians 4:26). Swift forgiveness restores peace and intimacy.

Prayer: Father, help us to forgive quickly and never allow anger to linger between us.

7. CULTIVATING CLOSENESS AND AFFECTION – “Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her.” (1 Corinthians 7:3). Love must be nurtured daily. Courtship never ends . Always recount the early days of your meeting with each other.

Prayer: Lord, deepen our closeness, rekindle passion, and keep our love fresh.

8. PARTNERSHIP AND MUTUAL SUPPORT – “Two are better than one… if one falls, the other lifts him up.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10). Marriage means standing together in strength and weakness.

Prayer: Father, help us carry each other’s burdens and celebrate each other’s victories.

9. JOY, HUMOUR, AND LIGHTHEARTEDNESS – “A merry heart does good, like medicine.” (Proverbs 17:22). Laughter heals and strengthens bonds.

Prayer: Lord, fill our marriage with joy, humour, and a spirit of gladness.

10. SPEAKING LIFE THROUGH WORDS – “Let your speech always be with grace.” (Colossians 4:6). Loving communication builds trust and connection.

Prayer: Father, sanctify our tongues so our words may bring healing, encouragement, and unity.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and pursue what brings us together and stay away from what separates us .

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SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 1)

Your family shall not fall apart but wax strong in love and harmony because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional;

SCRIPTURAL SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE ( Part 1)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

1 Corinthians 1:10 'Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.' This scripture describes the spirituality in a marriage which is the bedrock of a family. Here are some factors needed for a happy marriage .

1. SPIRITUAL ALIGNMENT AND SHARED VISION – “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Couples must walk in agreement with God’s will and share a common life direction especially your financial obligations to the Jesus Christ ( Galatians 6:6, 2cornthians 8:1-5, 1Corintians 16;1-2)

Prayer: Lord, unite our hearts under Your vision so we may walk together in purpose and harmony.

2. A GRATEFUL SPIRIT AND WORDS OF AFFIRMATION – “In everything give thanks.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Speaking appreciation daily strengthens love.

Prayer: Father, help us to express gratitude and affirm one another, so our marriage remains joyful.

3. FAITHFUL COMMITMENT ROOTED IN GOD – “The heart of her husband safely trusts her.” (Proverbs 31:11). Loyalty flows from trust built on God’s Word.

Prayer: Lord, make us faithful to each other and deepen our trust as we put our confidence in You.

4. WILLINGNESS TO ADJUST IN CHANGING SEASONS – “I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content.” (Philippians 4:11). Marriage thrives when spouses adapt with grace.

Prayer: Father, grant us humility and wisdom to adjust to life’s changes without strife.

5. WISDOM IN HANDLING EMOTIONS – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.” (James 1:19). Emotional maturity prevents wounds and cultivates peace.

Prayer: Lord, teach us to manage our emotions and respond to each other with gentleness.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and love for one another.

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PRAYING WIFE (PART 3)

You shall continue to make extraordinary progress in the face of adversity because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: PRAYING WIFE (PART 3)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

2 Timothy 1:5 "When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also."

A wife's prayer of faith is an integral part in the formative process of a child's faith and relationship with God. Here are more praying points of a praying wife :

6) CHILDREN’S DESTINY

Scripture: “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb.” (Jeremiah 1:5)

Hannah’s prayer raised Samuel, who changed a nation. Your intercession shapes your children’s destiny.

PRAYER: Father, let my children walk in Your calling and fulfill their purpose.

7 ) HOUSEHOLD SALVATION

Scripture: “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.” (Acts 16:31)

Your prayer can pull unsaved loved ones into God’s Kingdom.

PRAYER: Lord, bring salvation to every member of my family.

8 ) PEACE IN THE HOME

Scripture: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

A praying wife calms storms in her home. Peace is the fruit of prayer.

PRAYER: Lord, let Your peace reign in my home. Remove strife and replace it with unity.

9 ) DIVINE WISDOM

Scripture: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God… and it will be given.” (James 1:5)

Abigail, a wise woman’s prayers and decisions can save her household from disaster.

PRAYER: Lord, grant me wisdom to intercede and act rightly in every situation.

10) ENDURANCE IN PRAYER

Scripture: “Men ought always to pray and not lose heart.” (Luke 18:1)

Many blessings are birthed through persistence. Do not faint; keep praying.

PRAYER: Lord, strengthen me to persevere in prayer until every promise is fulfilled.

The prayer of the praying wife is very powerful and is indispensable in nation building.

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PRAYING WOMAN (PART 2)

That stubborn situation shall succumb to the anointing of God's favour upon you.

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PRAYING WOMAN (PART 2)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Luke 11:2 "And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth." Prayer is seeking God's intervention in human affairs . It is about enforcement of divine order in a chaotic world . A praying wife seeks for order in the following areas :

PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING WOMAN

1 PRESERVATION OF DESTINY

Scripture: “The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” (Psalm 121:8)

Just as Zipporah’s act preserved Moses’ destiny, God can use your prayers to shield your husband and household from unseen dangers.

Prayer: Lord, preserve my husband and family from every form of destruction. Keep our destiny secure in You.

2) FRUITFULNESS

Scripture: “He gives the childless woman a family, making her a happy mother.” (Psalm 113:9)

Hannah’s prayers turned barrenness into joy. Your prayers can turn every “closed door” in your family into open testimonies.

Prayer: Father, remove every barrenness—spiritual, financial, or emotional—from my life and home.

3 ) SPIRITUAL COVERING

Scripture: “He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you will find refuge.” (Psalm 91:4)

A wife’s intercession invites God’s covering over her home. Your prayer is a shield against attacks.

Prayer: Lord, cover my household with Your wings of protection.

4) GENTLE SPIRIT

Scripture: “A gentle tongue is a tree of life.” (Proverbs 15:4)

A praying wife is not loud in strife but strong in prayer. Gentleness is power under control.

Prayer: Lord, fill me with a gentle, peace-carrying spirit that blesses my home.

5 ) HUSBAND’S DESTINY

Scripture: “Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9)

Behind every thriving man is often a praying wife. Your prayers can lift your husband in his assignment.

Prayer: Lord, strengthen my husband to fulfill his God-given purpose.

These prayers should be made in faith with a sense of assurance from the lord that they will be answered.

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THE PRAYING WIFE (1)

Those who mocked you shall be overwhelmed by your breakthroughs because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional;

THE PRAYING WIFE (1)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

A praying wife is wise , peaceful and is a gift to her husband, her home, and the generations to come. In Scripture, we see how God honors the intercession of women who stand in the gap.

When Moses’ life was in danger because he had neglected God’s covenant command, his wife Zipporah quickly interceded through decisive action (Exodus 4:24–26). Though her role was not glamorous, her obedience preserved Moses’ life and destiny. In her, we see the picture of a wife whose sensitivity to God saved her household from judgment.

Hannah, too, shows us the power of a praying woman (1 Samuel 1:9–20). Though barren and provoked, she did not retaliate in anger or despair. Instead, she poured out her soul before the Lord. Her prayer not only opened her womb but also birthed Samuel, a prophet who changed Israel’s history. Hannah reminds us that a wife’s prayer can unlock divine purposes far beyond her personal struggles.

Scripture calls wives to be “women of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight” (1 Peter 3:4 AMP). This quiet strength is expressed most powerfully in prayer. A praying wife covers her husband in times of weakness, intercedes for her children’s destiny, and preserves her household against the attacks of the enemy.

Dear sister, God has positioned you as a watchwoman over your home. Like Zipporah and Hannah, your prayers can preserve, heal, and birth God’s purposes.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for deliverance prayers. Lord, teach me to be a faithful praying wife, standing in the gap for my family. Let my prayers preserve life, open doors, and release Your will in my home, in Jesus’ name.

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Friday, September 19, 2025

PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 5)

What was meant for your destruction shall result in your promotion because of the anointing of God's favour upon you .

Good-life Devotional: PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 5)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Acts 2:42-43 "And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers. And fear came upon every soul: and many wonders and signs were done by the apostles."

Prayer is the gateway to supernatural. A praying husband opens the doors for the miraculous in his family. Here are more prayer points of a praying husband.

17. PROTECTION FROM TEMPTATION

Lord Jesus, You taught us to pray, “Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.” I pray that You protect me and my family from sin and ungodly influences. Strengthen me to resist temptation and remain steadfast in faith. Guard my wife and children from snares, peer pressure, and worldly corruption. Help us to walk in the Spirit and not fulfill the desires of the flesh. Cover us with Your grace, keeping our hearts pure and devoted to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen. Matthew 6:13 – “And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.”

18. CHURCH INVOLVEMENT

Father, make me and my family faithful in serving You through the local church. Teach us to use our gifts, time, and resources to build Your kingdom. Let our commitment to fellowship be strong, and help us to encourage others by our example. Keep us from spiritual laziness or neglect of Your house. Just as Samuel heard Your voice while serving in the temple, may my family encounter You as we serve faithfully. Let our service bring You glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Hebrews 10:25 – “Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

19. GENERATIONAL BLESSINGS

Lord, I pray that my life of prayer and obedience will plant seeds of righteousness for generations to come. May my children and grandchildren inherit blessings because of the covenant I walk in with You. Break every generational curse of sin, poverty, or failure, and establish a new lineage of godliness. Let my descendants rise as mighty men and women of faith, impacting their world for Christ. May our family name be associated with integrity, faith, and righteousness. In Jesus’ name, Amen. Psalm 112:2 – “Their children will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed.”

20. ENDURANCE IN FAITH

Heavenly Father, strengthen me to be a man of prayer who endures in faith. Help me never to grow weary or give up in seeking You. Teach me to persist in prayer, even when answers seem delayed. Let me model perseverance for my wife and children, so they also learn to stand strong in faith. May my prayers shape the destiny of my family and leave a legacy of intercession. Keep me steadfast until I see You face to face. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Luke 18:1 – “Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.”

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Thursday, September 18, 2025

PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 4)

The anointing of God's favour upon you will give you wisdom that will put you ahead of the competition .
Good-life Devotional: PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 4)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Matthew 7:7 'Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: "
In Christ we have guarantee to pur prayers of faith being answered . Prayer is the solution to crisis in the family and husband's are expected as heads of the family to set the standards for prayers .Here are more prayer points for a praying husband.
13. SPIRITUAL SENSITIVITY
Father, open my ears to hear Your voice clearly. Remove every distraction, fear, and doubt that hinders me from discerning Your will. As You spoke to Samuel, speak also to me, and help me to recognize Your leading. Teach me to lead my family with spiritual sensitivity, guiding them according to Your Word and Spirit. Let my wife and children learn to hear from You through my example. May our household be marked by obedience to Your voice. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
1 Samuel 3:10 – “The LORD came and stood there, calling as at the other times, ‘Samuel! Samuel!’ Then Samuel said, ‘Speak, for your servant is listening.’”
14. FORGIVENESS
Lord, give me a heart that forgives quickly and fully. Remove bitterness, anger, and resentment from me. Help me to extend grace to my wife and children just as Christ has forgiven me. Teach me to humble myself and ask for forgiveness when I am wrong. Let our home be filled with mercy and compassion instead of strife. Restore joy and peace where wounds have been caused. May forgiveness keep our marriage and family strong, reflecting the love of Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Colossians 3:13 – “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
15. HEALING
Father, I ask for healing in every area of my family life—physical, emotional, and spiritual. Heal past hurts, disappointments, and misunderstandings in my marriage. Restore areas where trust or intimacy has been broken. Touch my wife and children with Your power and make us whole. Let Your peace and love flow in our hearts, replacing pain with joy. Help us to build stronger relationships rooted in grace. May our home become a place of restoration for all who enter. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
16. FRUITFULNESS
Heavenly Father, thank You for blessing marriage and commanding fruitfulness. I pray that my home will be fruitful in love, joy, peace, and purpose. Let our union produce godly children and spiritual impact in the world. Bless the works of our hands so that we prosper and have abundance to serve You and others. Remove every form of barrenness—whether physical, spiritual, or emotional. May our family grow in righteousness, becoming a light in our generation. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Genesis 1:28 – “God blessed them and said to them, ‘Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.’”
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to work miracles . Amen
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Tuesday, September 16, 2025

PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 3)

Your family shall not suffer lack regardless of the circumstances because of the anointing of God's favour upon you .
Good -Life Devotional: PRAYER POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND (part 3)
By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi
Matthew 7:8 "For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. '
In Christ we are guaranteed answer to prayers as long as they align with his will for the church . Here are more prayer points for a praying husband for a sustainable marriage and family.

9.) PROVISION
Jehovah Jireh, You are the source of all good things. I ask that You prosper the work of our hands and grant us diligence, wisdom, and favor. Open doors of opportunity, and make us faithful stewards of the resources You entrust to us. Help me to provide for my household with integrity and consistency. Deliver us from financial stress, lack, or wastefulness. Let our family walk in contentment, generosity, and gratitude. Make me a channel of blessing, not only to my family but also to others in need. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
1 Timothy 5:8 – “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
10. UNITY
Lord, I ask for peace and unity in my home. Bind my heart with my wife’s in love, and let our children walk together in harmony. Remove strife, pride, and disunity from our household. Give us wisdom to handle disagreements with humility and respect. Teach us to listen, forgive, and encourage one another. Let our family be united in purpose, serving You faithfully. May our home be a place of joy, healing, and Your presence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Psalm 133:1 – “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!”
11. CHILDREN’S SALVATION
Heavenly Father, I lift up my children before You. Let them know You from an early age and walk in Your truth. Write Your Word on their hearts and guide them in Your paths. Protect them from ungodly influences and the snares of the enemy. Give me the wisdom to train them in love, discipline, and godliness. May their lives bring glory to Your name. Lord, let them experience the joy of salvation and never depart from it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Isaiah 54:13 – “All your children shall be taught by the LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children.”
12. GUIDANCE
Lord, You promised that if we acknowledge You in all our ways, You will direct our paths. I submit my decisions, plans, and responsibilities to You. Guide me in my role as a husband and father. Help me to make wise financial, spiritual, and relational choices that align with Your will. Deliver me from confusion and impatience. Let Your Spirit give me clarity and discernment, so that every step I take benefits my family and honors You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Proverbs 3:5–6 – “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.”
PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to promote peace .
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Sunday, September 14, 2025

PRAYERS POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND

You shall not labour in vain because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: PRAYERS POINTS OF A PRAYING HUSBAND

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Matthew 26:41

"Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. '

A marriage is as strong as the prayer of faith backing it up. Here are some prayer models for a praying husband.

1. THANKSGIVING

Heavenly Father, I thank You for the precious gift of my wife and children. Your Word says that children are a heritage from You and a reward (Psalm 127:3). I bless You for entrusting me with the responsibility of leading, protecting, and nurturing them. Forgive me for the times I have taken them for granted. Help me always to honor You with gratitude, recognizing that every good and perfect gift comes from You. Let thanksgiving flow continually from my lips and keep my home filled with Your presence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Psalm 127:3 – “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.”

2. HOLINESS

Lord, You desire men everywhere to lift holy hands in prayer without anger or disputing (1 Timothy 2:8). Cleanse me from every hidden sin, bitterness, and pride. Purify my thoughts, my speech, and my actions. Let holiness be the foundation of my leadership at home and my worship in Your presence. May my life inspire my wife and children to pursue righteousness. Help me to walk in integrity and faithfulness so that my prayers are not hindered. Keep me blameless until the coming of Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

1 Timothy 2:8 – “Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing.”

3. INTIMACY WITH GOD

Father, draw me closer to You every day in prayer and in the study of Your Word. Guard my heart from distractions and lukewarmness. Teach me to abide in You so that my life becomes fruitful and pleasing to You. May my intimacy with You overflow into my marriage, shaping me into a godly husband and father. Let my children see in me an example of devotion and reverence to God. I long to walk with You as Enoch did, faithfully and consistently. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

James 4:8 – “Come near to God and he will come near to you.”

4. HEADSHIP

Lord, You have called me to lead my home as Christ leads the church (Ephesians 5:23). Grant me wisdom, humility, and discernment to make godly decisions. Help me to lead not with pride or harshness but with sacrificial love and gentleness. Let my leadership be guided by prayer and Your Word. May I inspire my wife and children to follow You wholeheartedly. Remove confusion and strife from our home, and establish peace and order under Your authority. Make me a servant-leader who glorifies Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Ephesians 5:23 – “For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.”

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Saturday, September 13, 2025

THE PRAYING HUSBAND

You shall continue to make great progress in the face of adversity because of the anointing of God's favour upon you .

Good -Life Devotional:

THE PRAYING HUSBAND

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

The strength of every family is tied to the prayers of its spiritual head. Scripture declares in 1 Timothy 2:8: “I want the men in every place to pray, lifting up holy hands, without anger or disputing.” A praying husband is not only the priest of his home but also the first line of defense against the wrath of God that comes upon families because of sin.

Jesus Himself warned, “Pray so that you will not fall into temptation” (Luke 22:40). A father’s intercession preserves his wife and children from the snares of the enemy. When Jesus prayed for Peter’s faith not to fail, though Peter denied Him thrice, he was restored and later strengthened others (Luke 22:32). In the same way, a husband’s prayer covers his family in seasons of weakness.

Abraham modeled prayer and communion with God before Isaac, who in turn taught Jacob. A child’s greatest inheritance is not money but the ability to recognize God’s voice. Samuel learned to hear from God through the guidance of Eli (1 Samuel 3). Likewise, when fathers pray and walk with God, they pass down spiritual sensitivity to their children.

We need more praying fathers to keep the church strong. It begins with cultivating a healthy habit of studying God’s Word, living in holiness, and serving faithfully in the local church. Samuel heard God while ministering in the temple with Eli. Today, families will hear God more clearly when husbands rise as men of prayer.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and zeal to pray in the spirit .

PRAYER; Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to pray in the Spirit.

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EFFECTIVE WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

Doors are being opened for you in high places because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: MORE EFFECTIVE WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

Proverbs 22:11 'He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the king shall be his friend.

Good and effective communication skills in relationships opens doors in high places . Here are more was a husband and wife can restart healthy communication after a break up.

5. REAFFIRM COMMITMENT

One major fear after a break is uncertainty about the future. Reassure your spouse of your commitment to the covenant. Hosea said to Gomer, “You must dwell with me many days.” (Hosea 3:3) This showed he wasn’t giving up.

PRACTICAL STEP: Say things like, “I’m committed to working this out because our marriage is worth it.” These words bring security.

6. SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES FOR HEALING

Rebuilding trust requires boundaries. This may include transparency with phones, limiting toxic friendships, or scheduling time together. Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together except they agree?” Boundaries create agreement and safety.

Example: After infidelity, a couple agreed to share passwords and avoid private communication with the opposite sex. These measures restored trust over time.

7. LISTEN ACTIVELY

James 1:19 instructs, “Be quick to listen, slow to speak.” Many conflicts persist because spouses listen to reply, not to understand. Put away your phone, maintain eye contact, and reflect back what you hear.

Example: When Amaka returned home, her husband listened without interrupting for 30 minutes. That single act melted her defenses and opened her heart to reconciliation.

8. USE EDIFYING WORDS DAILY

Proverbs 16:24 says, “Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” Compliment each other often. Say thank you for small acts. Speak life into your spouse’s dreams.

Example: After years of harsh words, one husband started leaving notes saying, “I appreciate you.” Within months, their home environment changed dramatically.

9. SEEK WISE COUNSEL IF NECESSARY

Sometimes, you need help. Pride often stops couples from getting counseling, but Proverbs 11:14 says, “In the multitude of counselors there is safety.” A godly counselor can offer perspective and accountability.

Example: A Christian couple struggling to reconnect after separation attended marriage counseling at their church. With guidance and prayer, they rebuilt their communication and trust.

10. REBUILD INTIMACY GRADUALLY

Emotional and spiritual intimacy must precede physical intimacy. Hosea didn’t rush into physical union with Gomer; he focused on restoring her heart first (Hosea 3:3). Take time to talk, pray, and laugh together before resuming full intimacy.

Example: A couple agreed to have monthly date nights with no arguments—just connection and fun. This gradually restored affection and desire.

WHY THIS MATTERS

Marriage reflects Christ’s relationship with the Church. If Christ reconciled us while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8), then we, too, can extend grace. Reconciliation glorifies God and strengthens families.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Communication is the lifeline of marriage. After a break, starting again requires humility, forgiveness, and intentional effort. You are not alone—God is the ultimate restorer. Remember His promise in Joel 2:25: “I will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten.”

PRAYER FOR RECONCILIATION

Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to heal the broken hearted

Heavenly Father, thank You for being the God of restoration. Heal our hearts from hurt, remove pride, and help us to speak with love and grace. Teach us to forgive as You forgave us. May our home be filled with peace and understanding. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Friday, September 12, 2025

WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

Difficult and complicated problems shall dissolve at your presence because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:

WAYS HUSBANDS AND WIVES CAN RESTART HEALTHY COMMUNICATION AFTER A BREAK

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

"All this is from God, who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation." (2 Corinthians 5:18, AMP)

Marriage is a divine covenant, not just a social contract. Yet, even strong marriages can experience seasons of misunderstanding, emotional distance, or even physical separation. These breaks, if not handled well, can destroy trust and affection. But God specializes in reconciliation, and He calls couples to walk in that same spirit.

The story of Prophet Hosea and his wife Gomer (Hosea 3:1-3) is a vivid example. Gomer abandoned Hosea, yet God commanded Hosea to love her again, symbolizing His unwavering love for His people. This narrative teaches us that reconciliation is possible—even after deep hurt—through God’s grace and intentional effort.

Below are some practical ways couples can restart healthy communication after a break, supported by Scripture and real-life wisdom.

1. BEGIN WITH PRAYER AND HUMILITY

Everything begins with God. Prayer softens hardened hearts and aligns our spirit with His will. Before you speak to your spouse, speak to God. Hosea sought God before restoring his wife, and so should we.

"God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6)

Example: Before John called his estranged wife after six months of silence, he prayed daily for God to heal his bitterness. By the time he reached out, his tone was humble and loving, not accusatory.

2. ACKNOWLEDGE PAST HURTS WITHOUT BLAME

Healthy communication starts by addressing the elephant in the room. Pretending nothing happened deepens wounds. However, this must be done without finger-pointing. Use “I feel” statements instead of “You always” or “You never.”

"Speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into Him who is the head—Christ." (Ephesians 4:15)

Example: Instead of saying, “You abandoned me,” say, “I felt lonely and hurt during our separation.” This opens the door for empathy rather than defense.

3. EXPRESS GENUINE FORGIVENESS

Without forgiveness, reconciliation is impossible. Colossians 3:13 says, “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Forgiveness is a choice, not an emotion. You may not forget immediately, but you can release resentment today.

Example: Belema wrote a letter to her husband after his betrayal, stating, “I choose to forgive you, not because you deserve it, but because Christ forgave me.” That broke the ice for honest conversation.

4. SPEAK WITH LOVE AND RESPECT

Words can either build bridges or walls. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, “A gentle answer turns away wrath.” Avoid harsh tones, sarcasm, or threats. Instead, speak words that heal and edify.

Example: When arguments arose, Timi and Ngozi agreed to pause and pray before continuing the discussion. This practice helped them choose kind words even in tense moments.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and the spirit of reconciliation in our homes and communities.

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Wednesday, September 10, 2025

CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 4)

Your tears of sorrow shall turn into tears of joy because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 4)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Derogatory remarks a Husband Should Avoid Saying to His Wife for a Cordial Relationship

Colossians 4:6 'Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man."

There is a way to answer every man according to the scriptures . We are saved by grace therefore our speeches should reflect the saving grace of our lord Jesus Christ.

Here are more remarks that a husband should not make towards his wife and their implications.

“YOU ARE LAZY.” – Ignores her daily sacrifices and labor.

“STOP TALKING, YOU DON’T KNOW ANYTHING.” – Silences her voice and belittles her wisdom.

“YOU ARE A BAD MOTHER.” – Cuts at the heart of her identity.

“OTHER WOMEN ARE BETTER THAN YOU.” – Inflicts deep wounds of comparison.

“YOU DON’T SATISFY ME.” – Insensitive and dishonoring to marital intimacy.

“I DON’T NEED YOU.” – Dismisses her role as a partner.

“YOU ARE CURSED/YOU BRING ME BAD LUCK.” – Invites condemnation instead of blessing.

“YOU DISGUST ME.” – Breaks intimacy and affection.

“I WISH I NEVER MET YOU.” – The ultimate betrayal of love.

BIBLICAL EXAMPLES OF HUSBANDS WHO SPOKE WELL

+ Elkanah and Hannah (1 Samuel 1:8): When Hannah wept over barrenness, Elkanah comforted her by saying, “Am I not more to you than ten sons?” He spoke love to soothe her pain.

+ Boaz and Ruth (Ruth 2:12): Boaz blessed Ruth with words of encouragement and honor for her faithfulness. His words strengthened her heart.

+ Jesus and the Church (Ephesians 5:25-27): Christ models the perfect husband by sanctifying His bride with words of love and life, not condemnation.

POSITIVE ALTERNATIVES HUSBANDS SHOULD USE

+ Instead of “You are useless,” say: “I am blessed to have you as my partner.”

+ Instead of “I regret marrying you,” say: “You are God’s gift to me.”

+ Instead of “You are a bad mother,” say: “You are doing an amazing job with the children.”

+ Instead of “You don’t satisfy me,” say: “I cherish the intimacy we share.”

+ Instead of “Other women are better than you,” say: “You are the only one I desire.”

A wife blossoms in an atmosphere of love and respect. Just as a wife is called to honor her husband, the husband is commanded to love his wife sacrificially. WORDS ARE SEEDS: plant encouragement, and you will harvest joy; plant insults, and you will reap strife.

Proverbs 15:1 reminds us: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger.” Therefore, let every husband learn to speak words of life, so that the marriage remains cordial, peaceful, and filled with the fragrance of Christ.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and a heart of compassion.

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 3)

Your shall not be disgraced because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional: CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 3)

Derogatory remarks a Husband Should Avoid Saying to His Wife for a Cordial Relationship

Ephesians 5:25 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”

Marriage thrives on love, honor, and mutual respect. While wives are cautioned against using careless words, husbands must also guard their tongues. A wife is a reflection of how her husband treats her. Proverbs 31:28 says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.”

Words spoken by a husband can either nurture his wife into a confident, joyful woman or crush her spirit into bitterness. Just as Christ uses words of love and encouragement toward the Church, husbands are called to speak words that edify.

Below are some derogatory things husbands must avoid saying to their wives if they desire peace, intimacy, and a cordial relationship:

Here are some Derogatory remarks Husbands Must Avoid Saying to Their Wives

“YOU ARE TOO FAT/TOO THIN.” – Body shaming erodes her confidence.

“YOU ARE AGING BADLY.” – Insults her appearance and makes her insecure.

“YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL.” – Destroys her self-esteem.

“MY MOTHER COOKS BETTER THAN YOU.” – Comparison invites resentment.

“YOU ARE JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!” (in a negative way) – Disrespectful to her family and identity.

“YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT.” – Cancels her efforts and belittles her.

“YOU ARE TOO EMOTIONAL.” – Dismisses her feelings instead of showing empathy.

“YOU ARE A TERRIBLE WIFE.” – Labels and wounds her deeply.

“I REGRET MARRYING YOU.” – Shakes the foundation of trust.

“I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE.” – Plants seeds of rejection and betrayal.

“You are useless without me.” – Controlling and demeaning.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom to speak with grace .

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CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES ( PART 2)

Your family shall continue to enjoy unlimited provisions because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:

CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES ( PART 2)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Derogatory Things a Wife Should Avoid Saying to Her Husband for a Cordial Relationship

11. “I HATE YOU.”

The most destructive declaration in any marriage.

12. “YOU ARE STUPID.”

This is disrespectful and humiliating.

13. “YOU ARE JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER!” (in a negative sense)

Comparing him to negative traits of his parents deepens wounds.

14. “YOU DISGUST ME.”

Breaks emotional and physical connection.

15. “I WISH YOU WERE DEAD.”

The ultimate curse. Words like this invite destruction.

16. “YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR ME.”

Dismisses every effort he has made in the past.

17. “OTHER MEN TAKE BETTER CARE OF THEIR WIVES.”

Comparisons lead to bitterness and envy.

18. “YOU ARE TOO WEAK TO LEAD.”

Discredits his God-given role and causes rebellion or withdrawal.

19. “YOU ARE A BAD FATHER.”

Criticism in this area cuts deeply and affects his confidence in parenting.

20. “I CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOU.”

Suggests he is irrelevant and not valued.

THE POWER OF EDIFYING WORDS

Instead of tearing down your husband with harsh words, choose to build him up with affirmations like:

“I BELIEVE IN YOU.”

“YOU ARE A BLESSING TO THIS FAMILY.”

“THANK YOU FOR WORKING SO HARD FOR US.”

“I RESPECT YOU AS MY HUSBAND.”

“WITH GOD’S HELP, WE WILL OVERCOME THIS TOGETHER.”

Proverbs 14:1 says, “The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands.” A wise wife uses words to strengthen her home, just like Zipporah chose action and life-giving words over criticism.

PRACTICAL TIPS FOR WIVES

+ PAUSE BEFORE SPEAKING: Think—will these words build or destroy?

+ SPEAK WITH GRACE: Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.”

+ PRAY INSTEAD OF NAGGING: 1 Peter 3:1 encourages wives to win their husbands without harsh words.

+ AFFIRM EFFORT, NOT JUST SUCCESS: Celebrate progress.

+CORRECT PRIVATELY, PRAISE PUBLICLY: Never embarrass him in front of others.

Conclusion:

Your words can either be weapons of destruction or tools of construction in marriage. Learn from Zipporah—choose life, speak life, and watch your marriage flourish.

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Monday, September 8, 2025

CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES ( PART 1)

Your family shall not fall apart but wax strong in love because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:

CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATIONS IN MARRIAGES ( PART 1)

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Derogatory Things a Wife Should Avoid Saying to Her Husband for a Cordial Relationship

Exodus 4:24-26

"Now it happened at the lodging place that the LORD met him and sought to kill him. But Zipporah took a flint and cut off her son’s foreskin and touched Moses’ feet with it and said, ‘Surely you are a bridegroom of blood to me.’ So He let him alone."

Marriage is a sacred covenant where words play a significant role in shaping the atmosphere of the home. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Words can either nurture love or poison intimacy.

In Exodus 4:24-26, Moses was under divine judgment because he neglected to circumcise his son, violating God’s covenant law. At that critical moment, Zipporah acted wisely. She did not curse Moses, ridicule him, or remind him of his failure. Instead, she intervened decisively to save his life. This teaches wives the power of supportive action and respectful speech even when their husbands falter.

Sadly, many marriages suffer because of careless or derogatory words. Below are some statements a wife should never say to her husband if she desires a loving and cordial relationship , the same rules apply to husbands too.

1. “YOU ARE USELESS!”

This statement attacks his identity and erodes his confidence as the head of the home.

2. “YOU WILL NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING.”

Words like these kill motivation and hope. Every man needs encouragement, not condemnation.

3. “MY FATHER/BROTHER IS BETTER THAN YOU.”

Comparisons destroy intimacy and create resentment.

4. “I REGRET MARRYING YOU.”

Such words undo the commitment you made before God and tear at the foundation of trust.

5. “YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT.”

This negates his efforts and discourages progress.

6. “I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE.”

It’s a dagger to the heart of love and breeds insecurity.

7. “YOU ARE NOT A REAL MAN.”

Attacking his masculinity creates deep emotional wounds.

8. “YOU ARE TOO POOR TO BE MY HUSBAND.”

Insulting his financial status shames him and pushes him away.

9. “I DON’T NEED YOU.”

This devalues his role as a protector, provider, and partner.

10. “YOU ARE A FAILURE.”

Labels like this crush his spirit and hinder his leadership.

If you have ever said any of such to your husband seek forgiveness from God and from him for the healing of your marriage ( James 5:16) and in our daily prayers we should ask for a meek spirit that is open to correction .

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Saturday, September 6, 2025

SPIRITUAL SELF-SABOTAGE: THE HIDDEN BARRIER TO GOD’S WILL

You shall not fall into the enemy's trap because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: SPIRITUAL SELF-SABOTAGE: THE HIDDEN BARRIER TO GOD’S WILL

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Many believers attribute delays and setbacks in life to demonic attacks, but often the real hindrance is spiritual self-sabotage—our failure to align with God’s will. Deuteronomy 28:1 teaches that blessings flow through the funnel of obedience, character, and alignment with God’s purpose. Victory over the enemy has already been secured through Christ’s triumph at the cross (Colossians 2:15). All things are under His feet, and by extension, under the church (Ephesians 1:20-22). Therefore, the greatest obstacle is not Satan, but our unwillingness to walk in the victory Jesus gave us.

Proverbs 25:28 warns that lack of self-control leaves us vulnerable, like a city without walls. Seeking the world’s approval makes us enemies of God (James 4:4). Jesus reminds us in John 15:2,6 that unfruitful branches are cut off. Israel’s struggles in Judges 2:11 and Hosea 4:6 were not about enemy strength but about disobedience and ignorance. Likewise, many today are destroyed for lack of knowledge.

Spiritual maturity requires discipline—training the senses to discern good and evil (Hebrews 5:14). It calls for crucifying the flesh and walking in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16), rather than living for worldly applause. Our greatest prayer should be for grace to obey, because obedience attracts God’s blessing (Deuteronomy 28:15).

True victory is not in rebuking external forces alone but in submitting to God’s will daily. When we align with Him, the blessings promised in His Word will manifest, and no enemy can prevail.

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and a repentant and sensitive heart .

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RAISING WISE CHILDREN IN A CORRUPT WORLD SYSTEM

Unexpected financial breakthrough will locate you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-Life Devotional:

RAISING WISE CHILDREN IN A CORRUPT WORLD SYSTEM

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

“Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline [correction administered with godly wisdom] will remove it far from him.” – Proverbs 22:15 (AMP)

Every child is born with a sinful nature, which often manifests in stubbornness, disobedience, and wrong desires. The Bible calls this foolishness bound in the heart. If left unchecked, these tendencies can lead to destruction—not just for the child but for the family and society.

God’s Word shows us the remedy: discipline, instruction, and the fear of the Lord. Training a child in God’s ways is not optional; it is a divine mandate. Proverbs 22:6 tells us to “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” This means deliberate, consistent teaching of God’s Word, correction when necessary, and living as an example of godliness.

Discipline does not mean harsh punishment; it means guiding with love, setting boundaries, and showing the consequences of choices. A parent who prays for their child and models righteousness will influence that child far more than mere words. Remember, rebellion and foolishness are spiritual issues, so intercession and teaching must go hand in hand.

APPLICATION

Make time daily to teach your children God’s Word.

Correct wrong behavior IMMEDIATELY but with love and fairness. Delayed correction shows weakness.

Pray consistently for your children to fear God and choose wisdom.

Be an example; your life speaks louder than your instructions.

PRAYER Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and wisdom for excellence.

Father, I thank You for the gift of children. Help me to raise them in Your wisdom. Remove every spirit of rebellion and foolishness from their hearts. Teach me to discipline with love and to lead by example. May my children walk in the fear of the Lord and fulfill Your purpose for their lives, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Friday, September 5, 2025

TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

You shall continue to make great progress despite the opposition against you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-life Devotional: TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Isaiah 61:3 declares that God’s people “shall be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.” A tree is known by its fruit (Matthew 7:17), and as God’s planting, we are expected to produce fruits that reflect His nature. These fruits of righteousness do not appear by accident; they grow from the seeds we sow.

According to 2 Corinthians 9:10, God “supplies seed to the sower and bread for food, and will also supply and increase your store of seed and enlarge the harvest of your righteousness.” These seeds include the Word of righteousness we preach (Luke 8:11) and the financial resources we give for the advancement of the gospel (Philippians 4:17). Every time we share the gospel or support kingdom work, we are planting seeds that will transform lives and society for the better.

Over time, consistent sowing results in us being “filled with the fruits of righteousness, which are by Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God” (Philippians 1:11). When righteousness flourishes, society enjoys peace and stability, for “righteousness exalts a nation” (Proverbs 14:34).

Jesus said, “Abide in Me…and you will bear much fruit” (John 15:5). As we remain rooted in Christ and faithful in sowing righteous seeds, we grow into strong trees that provide shade, fruit, and life to others. Let us keep planting—through preaching, giving, and living God’s Word—until the earth is filled with the beauty of His righteousness (Habakkuk 2:14).

You are God’s planting—keep sowing, keep growing, keep transforming lives!

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and grace to give towards God's work.

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NIGERIA: FROM CORRUPTION TO RIGHTEOUSNESS

Your righteousness shall break forth like a shining light because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional: NIGERIA: FROM CORRUPTION TO RIGHTEOUSNESS

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

: “For the earth will be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the LORD as the waters cover the sea.” – Habakkuk 2:14 (AMP)

Pastor Sydney Granville Elton. ( April 16 , 1907- January 14, 1987 ) , a British missionary to Nigeria who spent 50 years doing ministry in Ilesha western Nigeria , gave a prophecy that resonates strongly today:

“Nigeria and Nigerians will be known all over the world for corruption. Your name – Nigeria – will stink for corruption, but after a while, a new phase will come. A phase of righteousness. People from the nations of the earth will hold a Nigerian and say, ‘We want to follow you to your nation to learn righteousness.’”

Today, we see the first part of this prophecy fulfilled. Nigeria struggles with systemic corruption, and sadly, the church is not exempt. The merchandising of the gospel—turning ministry into a business—has created greed, false prophecies, and moral compromise. Many preachers now echo the words of Micah 3:11: “Her leaders judge for a bribe, her priests teach for a price, and her prophets tell fortunes for money.”

Yet, the prophecy did not end in darkness. God promised a season of righteousness. This aligns with Isaiah 60:1-3: “Arise, shine, for your light has come… Nations will come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your dawn.” A great revival is coming, and Nigeria will play a key role in global evangelism. God is raising aposttles of righteousness in Nigeria.

But this future depends on obedient believers. The call is clear:

REPENTANCE: Judgment begins in the house of God (1 Peter 4:17).

HOLINESS: Without holiness, no one will see the Lord (Hebrews 12:14).

DISCIPLESHIP: Raising a generation that loves Christ more than money.

Lord, purge Your church in Nigeria. Raise men and women who will stand for truth and righteousness. Let revival begin in me, and let Your light shine from Nigeria to the nations.

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WHEN LAWMAKERS BLOCK JUSTICE”

The strongman hindering your progress shall be subdued by the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:

“WHEN LAWMAKERS BLOCK JUSTICE”

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

Proverbs 29:2 – “When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; but when a wicked man rules, the people groan.”

In every nation, justice is the foundation of peace. When lawmakers refuse to pass bills that guarantee free and fair elections, they deny the people their God-given right to righteousness and equity. The Bible warns that when justice is perverted, oppression multiplies Poverty and insecurity increases (Ecclesiastes 5:8).

God expects His people to speak up. “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed” (Proverbs 31:8-9 AMP). Silence in the face of injustice empowers the wicked. As Christians, we must pray for our leaders (1 Timothy 2:1-2) but also take lawful action to demand accountability.

God hates dishonest scales (Proverbs 11:1). Electoral fraud and legislative sabotage destroy the foundation of governance and hinders the gospel . Therefore, believers must use their voice, their vote, and their influence to promote integrity. Advocacy, peaceful protests, and media engagement are righteous acts when done lawfully and for the common good.

Remember: God will judge corrupt rulers (Isaiah 10:1-3). But He also calls us to partner with Him in establishing justice. Rise up, speak out, and let righteousness rule in your land!

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TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

You shall continue to make great progress despite the opposition against you because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good-life Devotional: TREES OF RIGHTEOUSNESS – THE PLANTING OF THE LORD

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

You are God’s planting—keep sowing, keep growing, keep transforming lives!

In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and grace to give towards God's work.

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Tuesday, September 2, 2025

GOD HAS WAYS TO BRING ORDER TO A LAWLESS NATION

You shall receive wisdom to put you ahead of the competition because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

Good -Life Devotional:

GOD HAS WAYS TO BRING ORDER TO A LAWLESS NATION

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi

“When the righteous are in authority and become great, the people rejoice; But when the wicked man rules, the people groan and sigh.” – Proverbs 29:2 (AMP)

When a nation is lawless—filled with corruption, violence, and injustice—it may seem like evil will reign forever. But God is never powerless. He has divine strategies to restore order and righteousness.

First, He raises righteous leadership. “When the righteous are in authority…the people rejoice” (Proverbs 29:2). God looks for men and women of integrity, like Joseph and Daniel, to lead with justice and bring peace.

Second, God sends His Word and calls for repentance. “Come now, and let us reason together,” says the LORD (Isaiah 1:18). He warns nations before judgment, giving them a chance to turn back to Him.

If a nation refuses, God purges corruption by judgment. “I will turn My hand against you…and restore your judges as at the first” (Isaiah 1:24-26). Wicked rulers are removed so that godly governance can return.

Sometimes, He uses external or internal pressure to humble nations. In Judges 2:14, God allowed Israel’s enemies to afflict them until they cried out for help. God uses crises to bring people to repentance.

Finally, true order comes when hearts are changed. “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you” (Ezekiel 36:26-27). Laws alone cannot change a nation—only the Spirit of God can transform hearts.

Beloved, if your nation is lawless, do not despair. Pray for righteous leaders, repent where necessary, and ask for a move of the Holy Spirit. God’s plan is not destruction but restoration.

Lord, bring order to our land. Raise righteous leaders, purge corruption, and pour out Your Spirit for national revival, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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