CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 3)

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Good-Life Devotional: CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BETTER COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGES ( PART 3) 

 Derogatory remarks a Husband Should Avoid Saying to His Wife for a Cordial Relationship

   Ephesians 5:25 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”

    Marriage thrives on love, honor, and mutual respect. While wives are cautioned against using careless words, husbands must also guard their tongues. A wife is a reflection of how her husband treats her. Proverbs 31:28 says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.”

     Words spoken by a husband can either nurture his wife into a confident, joyful woman or crush her spirit into bitterness. Just as Christ uses words of love and encouragement toward the Church, husbands are called to speak words that edify.

  Below are some derogatory things husbands must avoid saying to their wives if they desire peace, intimacy, and a cordial relationship:

    Here are some Derogatory remarks Husbands Must Avoid Saying to Their Wives

“YOU ARE TOO FAT/TOO THIN.” – Body shaming erodes her confidence.

“YOU ARE AGING BADLY.” – Insults her appearance and makes her insecure.

“YOU ARE NOT BEAUTIFUL.” – Destroys her self-esteem.

“MY MOTHER COOKS BETTER THAN YOU.” – Comparison invites resentment.

“YOU ARE JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!” (in a negative way) – Disrespectful to her family and identity.

“YOU CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT.” – Cancels her efforts and belittles her.

“YOU ARE TOO EMOTIONAL.” – Dismisses her feelings instead of showing empathy.

“YOU ARE A TERRIBLE WIFE.” – Labels and wounds her deeply.

“I REGRET MARRYING YOU.” – Shakes the foundation of trust.

“I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE.” – Plants seeds of rejection and betrayal.

“You are useless without me.” – Controlling and demeaning.

 In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and wisdom to speak with grace .

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power for wise self expression 

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