COMPARING YOURSELF NEGATIVELY WITH OTHERS LEADS TO DISCOURAGEMENT

 You are delivered from confusion and stagnation because of the anointing of God's favour upon you.

COMPARING YOURSELF NEGATIVELY WITH OTHERS LEADS TO DISCOURAGEMENT 

By Michael Benson Ajayi 

Genesis 4:5 "]But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell."

      Comparing ourselves negatively to others can lead to a cycle of discouragement, discontent, and jealousy, as vividly illustrated by the story of Joseph and his brothers in Genesis. Joseph’s brothers harbored deep resentment towards him because of their father's favoritism and Joseph’s prophetic dreams. This jealousy led them to sell Joseph into slavery, causing immense family turmoil and personal guilt (Genesis 37:3-4, 28).

The Bible cautions against such harmful comparisons. In Romans 8:29-30, we are reminded that God has a unique purpose for each of us, conforming us to the image of His Son. This implies that our value and purpose are defined by God, not by how we measure up to others. Additionally, Galatians 6:4 encourages us to focus on our own work and not to compare ourselves with others, emphasizing personal responsibility and growth.

James 3:16 further warns that envy leads to disorder and evil practices. When we fixate on the achievements or qualities of others, we overlook our own blessings and potentials, fostering dissatisfaction and strife. Joseph’s brothers allowed jealousy to cloud their judgment and bring about actions they later regretted.

Instead, we should celebrate others' successes and trust in God’s plan for us, fostering contentment and peace in our hearts.  Praying for love and unity in the family is an effective to overcome jealousy. Jealousy is an indication that you are not praying for the success of the person you envy. 

  Prayer : Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to overcome evil jealousy.

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