AN ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY IS A MAJOR DESTROYER OF MARRIAGES: AVOID IT

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Good -Life Devotional: AN ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY IS A MAJOR DESTROYER OF MARRIAGES: AVOID IT

By Rev Michael Benson Ajayi 

     An entitlement mentality in marriage can subtly erode the foundation of love and unity that God designed for this sacred union. This attitude arises when one spouse believes they are owed certain privileges or treatment without reciprocating. It can manifest as selfishness, demanding unrealistic expectations, or a lack of gratitude for the other’s efforts.

1 Corinthians 12:14-27 reminds us of the interconnectedness of the body of Christ, emphasizing that every part is valuable and essential. Similarly, in marriage, both partners are vital and must honor each other's unique roles and contributions. Verse 25 states, "so that there may be no division in the body, but that the parts may have the same care for one another" (AMP). This care requires humility and a servant-hearted approach, not entitlement.

Ephesians 5:21 further encourages spouses to “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” Submission here is mutual respect and selflessness, seeking the best for the other without keeping score. An entitlement mentality disrupts this balance, breeding resentment and dissatisfaction.

    Jesus exemplified servanthood in John 13:14-15 when He washed His disciples' feet, teaching us to serve rather than demand service. Following His example in marriage means choosing sacrifice over self-centeredness.

    To avoid entitlement, couples must cultivate gratitude (1 Thessalonians 5:18), practice forgiveness (Colossians 3:13), and prioritize their spouse’s needs above their own (Philippians 2:3-4). By embracing humility and mutual respect, couples can safeguard their marriage against the destructive effects of entitlement and build a relationship that glorifies God.

  In our daily prayers we should seek a healthy appetite for God's word and humility to serve in God's family.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father forgive me of my sins against you I believe Jesus Christ died and was raised again for my salvation I receive him as lord and saviour and receive the Holy Spirit and power to heal broken families.

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